A girl I like in school will only go out with me if I let her and her friend jump on me, like the clip she saw below:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GjkU5tNhG4&search=trample
I think this will hurt, but she says I should be a man and should take some pain for the girl I love.
Should I do this or not?
2006-08-25 07:28:53 · 23 answers · asked by GOAL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never do anything you do not want to do. How do you know that she will really go out with you after? This could be a joke being played on you.
2006-08-25 07:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If someone really like you, they should not ask you to do anything that might get you hurt. That is just so stupid and childish. Sometimes a little thing like getting poked in the eye hurts a lot. What makes her think that you won't get hurt and how does that make you a man? You are wasting your time with that stupid girl. She might look good to you, but she will embarrass you all the time when she open her mouth and start saying stupid things like that. Find yourself an intelligent female who will respect you. Don't you know it will not end there. She will keep asking you to do more as time goes by.
2006-08-25 07:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to be abusive to you before you are even dating, just think how she is going to be after, assuming she isn't just being cruel and lying about dating you afterwards to see what you will do.
Stand up for yourself and say, "If this is the kind of thing you like to do, your not the person I thought, and I don't want to date the type of person you apparently are." Maybe a little of your reverse peer pressure will straighten her out, if not, you can certainly find someone better.
2006-08-25 07:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ro-bot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think u should do sumthing u dont want to do. If she's trying to make u do sumthin against your will then obviously she doesnt care about u. U need to keep a high self esteem. Dont ever lower urself for anyone not even if she was a supermodel. U're better than that.
2006-08-25 07:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by LADYQUEEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a bit of a prank shes playing and she probably wont keep her end of the bargain, however nothing ventured nothing gained and to use another cliche...love hurts, you might live happily ever after, one thing you should know is that guy in the video almost certainly PAID a lot of money to have that done to him, scantilly clad beautiful women dont come cheap....alledgedly
2006-08-25 07:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by OhSimonsBinDrinkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no girl worth that, what does jumping on you have to do with likeing you? what if you get hurt? there is more fish in the sea .stick on how you feel.
2006-08-25 07:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by dr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not! If you do, she still won't go out with you, but she will tell all the school about it and probably video it and put it on the net!
2006-08-25 07:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! i didn't look at the clip but noone should ever tell you to do something you don't want to do just to be with them! how selfish is that?? she's just using you for entertainment.
2006-08-25 07:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by ana g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man women suck dont they haha, thats up to you buddy. I'd say try it but if id hurts or anything leave, just knwo that they are billions of fish in the sea.
2006-08-25 07:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by someoneelse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anyone who would ask you to do something like that is sick. Run as fast as you can in the other direction.
2006-08-25 07:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by mac5doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋