I have everything going for me: great career ahead of me, good looking, young (my boyfriend is 19 years older), make good money even though my job is kind of shady right now, inteligent anough, ambitious enough. And still my boyfriend is not proposing.. I don't like this kind of situation. I am not sure if he is right for me cuz he has 3 children from his previous and as I listed above is much older than me. But I hate cohabitation situation and I think to cohabitate is to waste your time.
Anyway, what would you suggest on this matter?
2006-08-25 07:26:05 · 13 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was writing "inteligent anough" meant to be a bad pun? Do you still have any doubt as to why he won't propose?
2006-08-25 07:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy in the situation (not being engaged), then maybe you should get out of it, or give yourself some space to decide if it is right and what you want. You don't sound like you are exactly sure if this is what you want, so it is always better to find this out before you are married. I suggest you have a talk with him and let him know how you feel, if this is really bothering you he would want to know. Remember though, you don't want to "make your boyfriend ask", it should be something he wants to do, or else it will not last. So, if need be give him some space and let him realize what he's missing out on. As the saying goes, "let it go and if doesn't come back then it was never really yours to begin with". Hope this helps!
2006-08-25 14:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Floridagrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has 3 children from his previous marriage and that might be the reason. He is probably broke from paying all the child support and alimony's. Maybe he wants to wait, because he knows what marriage is al about and he is not ready for that again. Give it some time and thing work out the way there are supposed to be.
2006-08-25 14:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never make anyone marry you... It has to come from the heart... But if he was married before I can see why he might not be asking you. He's probably not ready now, or doesn't want too..
If this is truly what you want, you need to sit down with him and discuss the situation. Let him know, what you want. If he is not on the same page as you, then move on... Don't waste your time as well as his...
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-08-25 14:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweaty, j think that he is old enough to know that you are the perfect one for him or not.So have you asked yourself does he want another marriage or not.So ask him gently over dinner,and if you se that he beet around the bush, run away as fast as you can.You can find somebody else.J wish you luck.
2006-08-25 18:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by QUEEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he doesn't repeat wrong again. He needs time to be ready and sure that you will be the right person in him life. May be he thinks that you need more time too. No rush to give important step to life.
2006-08-25 14:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Luna2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that if you are "intelligent anough", that you would know how to spell the word enough.
2006-08-25 14:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is scared of getting into another marriage because he last one didn't work out.
2006-08-25 14:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's still young and maybe marriage really ain't on his mind right now just give it time don't rush marriage only chance your last time
2006-08-25 14:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to make him, if he wants you to be part of his life he will ask you.
2006-08-25 14:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋