I have very strong feeling for a woman, I met here at answers. My feeling are sometimes sad and sometime wonderfully in love. The sadness is because she is too young so, we will never be able to connect in a most wonderful way for love. When sad I become very insecure. I want to run the other way and not feel anything. We are both devoute christians, and when I'm happiest is when I feel connected throught the Holy Spirit, and Jesus is with us. I am drawn to her everyday and our only contact has been email and IM. It would be helpful for someone to help me, I need help from other christians who have passion for Christ. Thank you and love to all. Be Blessed!
2006-08-25 07:24:50 · 19 answers · asked by Knucklehead 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Her age is 20, my age is 57
2006-08-25 08:52:03 · update #1
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails.
2006-08-25 07:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by bachlava_9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Urantia Book defines love as "the desire to do good to others." You can love another person without romantic or sexual feelings being attached to that love. Even if you do feel romantic love towards someone, that doesn't mean you have to, or even should, act on it.
You left the situation a little vague by saying she is "too young." We don't know whether that means she is under 18 or only that the difference in your ages is great. If she is a legal adult, then certainly nothing is preventing you from pursuing an "offline" relationship. However, if she is not a legal adult then unless you live in a country where such relationships are legal, your only course of action is to love her from afar and wish her happiness in her life. Your "desire to do good to her" in this case would be to leave her alone.
2006-08-25 08:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Agondonter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a devout Christian, but I do know a bit of the love of a heart, no matter what the belief.
don't ever feel sad because you have someone that you adore in your life. If you really "love" her then you will be happy to live your life the way you should and for her to live as she should. If it is meant to be when she is old enough, it will happen. Everything happens for a reason, and all things work for good, so don't go by your human-self but your Christian Beliefs, and let things go the way things are meant to go. If you believe with all your heart that God always makes things right, give it to God, and live as you know he'd want you to.
2006-08-25 07:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you recognize even as that's actual is ... you ought to fairly decrease off your arm than do something to ever harm him. the idea of dishonest makes your abdomen turn. actual love isn't a 'maximum of the time' difficulty. It hits you in the gut, 24/7, even once you argue or disagree. The underlying affection and love are nonetheless there, no be counted what. the most suitable difficulty you ought to ever do is something to jeopardize his faith and matter on you, and also you stay to make sensible that he is going to sleep each nighttime chuffed that he picked you to be his woman. even as his needs come before your own, that's actual love. You sound such as you want to be on my own. once you're in simple terms in a relationship because you do not favor to be on my own, and once you've concepts of dishonest, that's even as that's time to cling it up and tell HIM! you ought to be straightforward with your self, and with him . You owe it to both him and to your self to be straightforward, and tell him what's on your concepts. If he needs to move ahead, obviously you're literally not waiting, and that's patently unfair to keep him on the line once you've concepts of different adult men on proper of you. actual love ... this ain't. P.S. Being on my own is actual quite exciting. that's not pathetic or lonely - that's not weak spot, that's skill. until eventually you draw close it, you received't recognize what you're able to.
2016-11-27 20:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something that can't be explained, it's that feeling that you've never felt before and want to hang onto forever.
The only true way to know if it's real or not is to be with that person more and see how you feel.
2006-08-25 07:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by themicrowavemaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how young is too young ?
if she is over 18 then i dont see a problem with having a relationship even if the age gap is big.. she is an adult and im sure knows what she is doing
2006-08-25 07:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about age, as long as she is of legal age. You know if your intentions are honorable. Do you wish to marry her? Have a relationship? What is your level of commitment?
2006-08-25 07:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a consistant attitude of value towards life.
2006-08-25 07:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Cyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest confusion is Lust instead of Love!
2006-08-25 07:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres defenetly a difference between infatuation and love but its hard to tell the difference sometimes
2006-08-25 07:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋