can u have a threesome with ure love and not mess things up between you? will it be wierd? or can it just be one night of fun?
2006-08-25 06:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's a good idea. Yeah, it sounds fun & all, but in the end is it really worth it? I think it would lead to major complications in the relationship somewhere down the line. I'v seen this break up relationships. Unless you are both open to it & could care less sharing your intimate sexual relationship with just anyone & everyone---I would suggest not to do it.It will def make things weird. Why not come up with other special ways to make your sex life exciting , rather then bringing a third person into it, which will just make things less special & intimate between the two of you? I don't know, just my thoughts on the whole matter. If she's YOU'RE love then you shouldn't want to be sharing it with anyone else.
2006-08-25 07:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY way I've found that this will even half way work,is if you do the threesome with someone whom only one of the parties has talked to or meet. If your looking for a threesome,you don't want to include ANY friends! It almost always ends up in disaster. Someone will eventually try to contact the other one when their mate isn't looking. If you do this with someone you will probably never see again,maybe only talk to by phone from time to time,it might work out. TRUST is the main issue. It always causes problems when friends are involved. Somebody will come back for more,and the second time,they'll just want it to be the two of them! If you trust your mate,a threesome can spice things up,if not,it'll only MESS things up!! I've learned this the hard way!!
2006-08-25 14:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by onehott_lover 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You both would have to be very secure in the relationship and if she's emotional she'd need to know you love her and not the other person in the threesome. Talk about it a lot and make sure to know how she feels and let her know how you feel about the whole situation before it happens.
2006-08-25 13:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on your level of trust in the relationship. One of you cannot become overly jealous as it is just an act of pleasure, not a long term thing. Can ruin relationship, so I would tread water very lightly if you have loopholes in your relationship.
2006-08-25 13:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT SURE, I HAVE NEVER DONE IT BUT I WOULD SUGGEST YOU GO OUT OF THE STATE FOR A THREESOME. THAT WAY YOU WON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THE 3RD PERSON COMING BACK
2006-08-25 13:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better make sure you both know what you are getting into my wife just left me for trying to set this type of thing up
2006-08-25 13:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ... it's not weird ... I love women sexually and I love my man to death .. I know how much he loves me and we both can separate love and sex ... !
For him to be open-minded and willing to share himself with another woman is a Nobel thing to me .. lol .. ok maybe not Nobel but it is unselfish of him to make sure my needs are always taken care of ... I feel it takes a secure man to be with a hot bisexual female .. with a high sex drive .. I would love to watch my man with another woman as long as I'm enjoying her just as much.
I'm very very secure in my relationship .. the more secure I am the more fun we get to have ... !
2006-08-25 14:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
then chances are that the 3 person will fall in love wit u, ive seen it happen toooo many times.
2006-08-25 13:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in threesomes, foursomes and more. It did not hurt our relationship.
2006-08-25 15:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I can do that. I'm a selfish lover, I want it all for myself.
2006-08-25 13:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋