We're going to order the gift today for it to be sent to their house. Should we still bring a card to the actual wedding? If we do, should I put a note in it that the gift is being sent?
2006-08-25 06:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by AnswerGirlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It would be really nice if you bring a card to the wedding. The happy couple may be busy on the wedding day, but they will have time to read the good wishes after the wedding.
You don't have to mention gifts at all. They would know that already when they receive your gift.
2006-08-25 09:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by justagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should still bring a card to the wedding. My husband and I had people send gifts to our house after the wedding. When they came to the wedding they brought a card and instead of saying the gift is in the mail, they included a picture of the gift they had bought us. We had an on-line registry so they just printed the picture off the computer and included it in the card. I found the cards helpful when I was filling out thank you cards. it was easy to go through the cards we got and use them to give me a basic idea of who to send thank you's to and what they had given us. I would include in the thank you card, .....Thank you so much for attending the wedding. Joey and I received your fabulous gift in the mail a few days after we returned from our honeymoon and it was such a pleasant surprise. ....:) Something along those lines. Each thank you card was customized as to what they had given us. So yes the cards are important.
Have Fun :)
2006-08-25 15:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by **hope/faith**1744 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely. They should have either a place for cards or what is called a "money box" for you to put the card in. I would definitely put a note that the present is on the way because if it comes while they are on their honeymoon than they can let someone know (like the parents) that something will be arriving.
2006-08-26 21:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should bring the card because most people that are getting married bring a wishing well that the gust put cards with money or just wishing you a very good marriage card. I am getting married tomorrow and we have a wishing well for that reason.
2006-08-25 13:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, the bride and groom will have so much on their minds they won't notice whether or not you gave tthem a card and it will just get lost in the shuffle. If you sent a gift to the home, that is fine.
2006-08-25 14:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'd be a nice touch to bring a card since your gift probably won't include a card, if it's sent directly from the store.
2006-08-25 13:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by ms v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't worry about it. If you are sending a gift then you're fine. Plus, ettiquitte allows a full year to give someone a wedding gift.
2006-08-25 13:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by it's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will be so busy that they won't even notice a card, or absence of one!
2006-08-25 14:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesbrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋