LADIES! my female friend is acting weird need advice?

Question

my female friend and i are single. it has been 8 months that we broke things off with our exes. in the past month we have been hanging more frequently. but in the past week and a half, we have been hanging out more, calling each other everyday at work we talk for atleast 2 hours a day and later in the evening we talk for another hour or so. just the other day i was chi chattin with her and it was time for me to leave work, i told her i was going to meet my friend (this friend, she knows her and knows that we hang out alot) my female friend told me that by i hanging out with her is making her jealous. and i was shock to hear that but i told her to not worry about it no one can replace her then i told her i will call her that night but i remember she was going to be busy so i told her to call me and she agree but she never called and now i havent heard from her and it has been 3 days
we talk every day at work,
what s going on here ?? any advice?

this past weekend she did me a huge favor that she usually dont do for any guy she brought me lunch to my house and she threw in my face that she doesnt do this for anyone and i know that i had to tell her to relax and why is she trying to spoil a nice moment
why??

i am starting to like her and maybe consider a relationship with her

Answer 1

Sounds like she is in love.....with YOU

Answer 2

I am best friends with the most amazing guy in the world right now. He is a good friend and my friends brother so it's wierd but I get jelous sometimes when he goes out too. I try not to, cuz he doesnt get jelous at all when I go out (well not much anyways) and we've messed around alot under the influence but we are not together. There was one time I found out he had a date and didnt talk to him for 2 days, and he thought I was nuts. I have learned since then that guys hate all that stuff the jelousy the games. If you want a relationship with your friend, you are probably both in the same place. If not, maybe a few days without talking is good. I know when I am upset and dont call him he calls a few days later cuz we do care a lot about each other. He calls and is all worried and cute and by then I'm not mad anymore and we hang out again. It's stupid but it works for me right now, and you seem to be on the other side of the same problem.

Answer 3

Typical situation!!!!
You are having a relationship with this lady friend that is beyond friendship, wether you acknowledge it or not. Sometimes, you don't need any physical contacts to give a woman the things she wants. If you are acting like what she is expecting from a man, meaning talking to her on the phone for hours, listening to her, sharing thoughts and opinion, hanging out together, etc...you are giving her the message that you are kind of "her man" !
She has understood this before you did obviously, so wake up! But this means you have to face the situation and open your eyes. The question is: are you ready for this and do you feel any attraction to this lady?
If you do, it is the start of a relationship and both of you know enough about each other to guess if this is going to work or not.
She is now acting like she wants to go a step further and be more than just your friend, so the cards are in your hands...

Answer 4

She wants to take the relationship to another level. She doesn't know how to say it but that is why the dynamic is changing, more frequent phone calls, longer calls, etc. Well, because we women think men should be able to read our minds, she is appalled that you would spend time with this other woman, (who is NOW a threat to her) expecting you to KNOW she has feelings for you. As a woman she couldn't have been more honest when she told you she was jealous, most men should be so lucky to even get THAT insight. What you have to do is explore your feelings for your friend and decide if you want to have something other than the platonic relationship you've been having with her. If you decide to pursue something further, because she's already warned you that she has a jealous streak, you are also going to have to consider changing the dynamic of your other friendship as that could be problematic. A lot for you to think about, but think hard about this situation, and move carefully because if you don't play this right, ultimately you could lose two friends.

Answer 5

I think she realized that she does love you and got very jealous over another woman. Maybe she does not know how to act now. She don't know if you would date her because if you would then you wouldn't have went with the other girl. So she got mad. You need to tell her if you have feelings for her more then a friend. Either way you need to talk to her and tell her if you want to pursue a friendship or relationship. L.

Answer 6

Dude! Really! Do you need to ask? Girlfriend is checkin' you and you just blew her off for another female! You have been friends for a long time and now you are both single..... Maybe she's had feelings all along but didn't want to step on toes to get to you. Now... you're on the market and things have blossomed over the last 8 months and it obviously went right over your head. You need to check your own feelings and make them known to her especially if they are the same as what she is obviously feeling for you! Act quickly, she may decide that she is wasting her time and move on!

Answer 7

the short answer -

She wants you
She is intimidated by other women
She wants you to recognize that she treats you special
She doesn't want to be taken for granted.
She didn't call you to see if you would miss her and call her.
She wanted you to see what life would be like without her.

the solution - if you want more than a friendship, go for it, she will be open to it. If you arre happy with the friendship alone- tell her.

BUT -She will deny liking you in that way if you reject her. She doesn't want to lose the friendship.

FYI - 8 months is kind of a good time. It's when your officially over the ex and missing the relationship feeling.

Good LUck - hope that helped

Answer 8

Maybe she's just trying to sort out her feelings. She probably likes you for a lot more than a friend, and is trying to handle her emotions. Try to call her, and if she answers, gently ask if she wants to talk about anything. If she doesn't answer, just try and wait. Don't worry; I'm sure she's ok!

Answer 9

i say go for the lady friend!!
jeez, men are dense.... she's practically be throwing herself at you dude!!
i think she really wants to get with you but she's worried that you don't want her and that she would jeopardize the friendship by asking you out.do you want to go out with her?
i bet you guys would make a good couple because you were friends first and you know each other pretty well.
ask the girl out and see what happens!!!!

Answer 10

Maybe she does like you mopre than a friend, but she probably decided to back off once you said you were going out. Ar least she didnt act a fool. Maybe she didnt like it, but I think she respected your choice to go out on a date, and respected your friendship. Good luck, give her a call

Answer 11

I am worried that your friend has disappeared.

Does her other friend drive a van with plastic bags taped over the windows and the sound of tools rattling around in the back?

Does he have lime powder on his trousers and carry a shovel?

In the meantime, take comfort in the Catholic Church.