so i met this guy on my vacation and we had sooo much fun together and i liked him sooo much but everyone else was saying that he was just sweet talking me and that he really didnt like me and i didnt wanna believe them but then yesturday idkk he was being weird kinda like everyone told me..but before that he said that he loved me and that i was the most adorable thing hes ever seen..and that he wishes that we could have had more alone time because he knew it was golden from the beginning..so idkk what to believe right now because seriously i felt like i was in love with him and now i dont even know what to think because he imed me this morn and we had absolutly nothing to talk about
2006-08-25 06:38:28 · 37 answers · asked by clf_xox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was a sweettalker. Sweettalkers can make you melt with words, but if their words dont get them what they want, sooner than later they will move on. Welcome to real life
2006-08-25 06:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are right. Let him do all the chasing from now on and then you'll really see what he's all about because if he's only after one thing and he sees that your not that into him anymore or that your not going to give it up to him he'll just drop contact with you. But as long as he thinks there is a chance that you guys will hook up he'll keep the lines of communications open and say what you want to hear to get what he wants.
2006-08-25 06:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to get your hopes up but if I were you I would start looking at those "everyone else" you talk about. It could be they are where the problem is.
What would keep someone from telling him the same thing they told you. If he thinks you were playing him it would explain the change in mood.
Talk to him directly. Tell him what you had heard and see what happens. If could be your friends are playing a joke on you that is not so funny.
2006-08-25 06:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christina, first off, don't believe anybody that tells you that they love you so early in a relationship ok? That's b.s. The guy was just telling what you wanted to hear, so he could get in you're pants. Second, when one is on vacation, things are different. It's not the same as being at home. I have experience with this. And lastly, please learn how to punctuate, otherwise you're question is just a ramble.
2006-08-25 06:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in "Lust at First Sight" and in due time... that MAY grow into Love! Just have fun and enjoy life! The best way to learn is to experience! If you make a mistake.. who cares, you made some great memories along the way!
2006-08-25 06:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by melabauve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So talk to him and tell him what is going on. The problem is that because of what everyone else has said you got cautious and he picked up on that and now he is being cautious. You two are letting everyone elses views create your reality instead of just talking about stuff openly between you and making it clear what each of you is looking for and what each of you is scared of.
2006-08-25 06:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it was just a summer fling and he was just sweet talking you. Sometimes it is easier to maintain a relationship with someone when you're on a deadline (timeframe) and you can see the end. So I'd say, forget the guy and move on.
2006-08-25 06:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you think your in absolute love and then you just realise it was a crush. i met my fiancee on hotornot.com and we started talk'n and met a week later in person. that night i knew that i was going to marry her and two months later i proposed. u just have to think deep down and follow ur gut. people are always going to say stuff to change your mind but u have to listen to all of it and make your own decision. look at your relationship. do you two have alot in common. as in the same back ground. interests, hobbies, weird things that u like to do, how comfortable do u feel around him. i mean me and my fiancee crack each others backs and pop each others pimples every day or so haha i know its weird but that what we do and we become closer by doing that. just follow your heart.
2006-08-25 07:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by ryan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still IMed you he's still interested. When some one uses the word love and you in the same sentence it's big. Just let things calm down. Give it time.
2006-08-25 06:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but he is useing you, don't be so gullable. If he doesn't have anything to say when you are not alone and all steamy then that's probably all the guy wants. You should look for someong that wants more in the relation ship than that.
2006-08-25 07:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay ask your yourself this do you really love this guy? If this guy really love like he says he does than both of you will work something out. But if it doesn't work don't worry he's not the only guy out there you know. Somewhere out there will be that special guy who love you for you. And when that time comes it will be very special:)
2006-08-25 06:43:29 · answer #11 · answered by Ressa08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋