OK, folks, help me out. =) Envision yourselves in this situation. You and your girlfriend are apart for the summer (you're college students), and you have a great youth and college community at your home church. Your girlfriend is really bored at her own home, states away from you, and your youth group and homeboys start IMing her and going to her blog and stuff, just because they're curious about her. She happens to be a very charismatic and interesting person, who loves to talk to people. So alot of conversations are struck up between her and your buddies. While you're glad that they're getting along, she spends a good part of her day talking to these people. And they love her; can't get enough of her humor and stories... But none of them have ever met her in person. Now tell me. How would this make you feel? and WHY?
2006-08-25 06:33:33 · 9 answers · asked by reba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd find it a little threatening that she's opening up to my buddies, but I'd probably get over it, depending on how much I trusted my girlfriend and my buddies.
And it would depend on how deep my feelings were for her (the more I cared, the more I'd worry) and how we were getting along. I mean, if she's giving my buddies more attention than me, I'd think I was on the way out, regardless of what she told me.
If I'm miles away from my significant other, and she spends more time with my friends than with me, I'd worry. Wouldn't that worry you, if you cared about him?
And another thing: You know him personally, but you know his friends only from your online experiences. That says you're curious, too. I'd be asking myself why.
2006-08-25 06:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's a great thing, to have the people close to you love your significant other. There are situations where that's just not the case and presents major riffs in relationships.
2006-08-25 13:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by M D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about it man, u might lose your girlfreind 2 one of your buddy's...... or not long distance relationships don't work out... i know because i had 1 yrs. ago. she found another guy that was there in the same town.. And u are not there near her,
2006-08-25 13:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could go either way honestly....It depends on the motives of all of them. Do they want to date her? Does she want to date them? ....
if their intentions were to get the two of you split up, I'd be hurt....If they are just trying to be her friend then I'd be ok with it....Just as long as the conversations didnt end up where they didnt need to be!
2006-08-25 13:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecure much? As long as she doesn't ignore you... It's a good thing that she gets along with your friends.
2006-08-25 13:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by In the light 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't care. but id be pissed after i read this question cuz i would realize how conceited my girlfriend. according to you you're the greatest thing on earth.
2006-08-25 13:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Adam Ding Dong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird. I wouldn't feel anything...If she is bringing the sunshine, why are you trying to be the rain??
Let her be so long as she remains YOUR girl...otherwise...relax!
2006-08-25 13:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Duane's Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get a life...
2006-08-25 13:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by latina44572002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see below
2006-08-25 13:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋