I am white and my husband is white. I have been cheating on my husband of 7 years with this black guy in our trailer court for about 6 months and got pregnant.
I was cheating because my husband is terrible in bed. I told him if he didn't start satisfiying me I would cheat so I did. I am affraid that if the baby comes out black my husband will hook up the trailer and leave me. I can't stay with the black guy because he is going back to prision next month. I'm 8 monthes preg.
What would you do?
2006-08-25 06:25:38 · 33 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it too late to abort the husband? The decade-after divorce pill?
2006-08-25 06:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by A professor (thus usually wrong) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey am sorry to hear that. I understand where your coming from though. I once felt that, my husband never satisfied me in bed but i refuse to let him go because i loved him so much. I wanted to be satisfy, so I cheated and cheated and cheated so more. Then i got pregnant. It wasn't my husband child, but he stuck with me all the way and he still remains my husband. And you know what he told me, he said if he had heard that I was cheating on him and got pregnant from anyone else, he was going to leave me. All am trying to say is that you already messed up by cheating on him and got pregnant, the least that you can do is tell him the truth. As for you being pregnant it's already to late to have an abortion. And whenever that black guy gets out of prison, stay away. And don't forget to pray.
2006-08-25 06:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright I am not going to make fun of you at all. People all make mistakes and you just have to learn from them. My advice would be this:
If you tell your husband now that you cheated he will most likely leave you now before the baby is born and you could completely ruin your marraige when the baby may be his!
Wait until you give birth. If the baby is white, then you will just need to suffer with your conscience. Don't tell your husband unless you plan to end the relationship because he is poor in bed.
Now if the baby comes out black of course your husband will 99% most likely leave you. You will have to accept this. There are many single mothers in this world. it is hard but you got yourself in this situation. \
Hope this helped.
2006-08-25 06:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gotten your self in a very big mess.... You might not want to wait until the child is born you should tell your husband now. Its seems as though you know who the father may likely be. If you husband leaves you that is a chance you have to take because that is the predicament you put yourself in unfortunately. If you wait until the child is born and is clearly visible the your husband is not the father then...... This whole situation may just get 10 times worse. I hope for you and your child's sake that you have a strong support system from your family.
2006-08-25 06:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Laila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously hope this is a joke.
I mean first off cheating because the sex is bad? ummm if its that bad, that you would need to cheat, why are you two together in the first place. Second why has your "husband" even stuck around this long. If my gf said that I would leave her in a second.
Thirdly, why would you hook up with someone who is going to jail?
I'm sorry I have to say it, if this is not a joke, you are trailer park trash.
2006-08-25 06:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed, lie in it. Your "rationalization", that you would have an affair, (not cheat) if your husband couldn't satisfy you is nothing to hide behind...that is cowardice. Lastly, if you have any brains at all, you know that you can get pregnant if you have sex...and that a black person and a white person do not make a white baby....I suggest you be a woman and fess up to your husband no matter if the child is his or not.
2006-08-25 06:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jaybird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what happens when people cheat nothing good ever ever ever ever comes out of it. my advice to you is save up some cash put it in an account he doesnt know about and prepare yourself to be getting an apartment or something. but my advice to you is to get a hold of your family and ask them if you can stay with them for awhile and sit down and talk with your husband at a PUBLIC place just in case he decides he wants to beat all the be damned out of you i'm being serious here though and tell him around people that way you can ensure your safety and that of your child. Good luck to you.
2006-08-25 06:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by hazeleyedbandit3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you need to find another trailor. Its awful that you cheated on him. He couldn't help if he wasn't good. You should have worked with him in that area. I hope he's cheating on you too with a smarter woman who has a house and no trailer.
2006-08-25 06:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take out a loan and BRIBE you doctor to:
1. Keep hubby out of the delivery room;
2. Tell hubby the baby died; and
3. Assist you in immediately putting the child up for adoption, you trail-trash strumpet!
2006-08-25 06:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start packing your bags get state help till you get a job and get your own place. You can not blame your spouse for your stupidity. If the bedroom was the only thing wrong you would not have done it. Obviously there are other things wrong here. You played with fire now you got burned
2006-08-25 06:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋