We are in our 30s and my girlfriend is a virgin. Are there any positions that are recommended. I am more experienced than she is.
2006-08-25 06:23:41 · 24 answers · asked by zeisel561 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing you must remember is RESPECT! In any situation RESPECT is EVERYTHING. She is a Virgin and will be giving it up to you, remember She has SAVED herself for you, Don't Blow it by thinking that you can do what ever you choose to do. Appreciate her for being that Special Girl in your life at this time and TALK IT THROUGH. MOST IMPORTANT GUIDE HER THROUGH IT AND TAKE YOUR TIME. THIS COULD BE THE BEGINNING OF A WONDERFUL AND MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP. GOOD LUCK AND THANKS FOR ASKING. ALOHA FROM HAWAII
2006-08-25 06:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, you can do better than this farce! If you are more experienced in sex, then surely you already know the various positions. And, I didn't know there were any 30 year-old virgins running around! Either that, your she has led you to believe she is a virgin. I suspect she knows a bit more than she is letting on. Sex is a normal, natural thing like using the bathroom, and really, not too many people need hours of instruction to get it right.
2006-08-25 13:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
O boy... 30 yr old virgin... Im not sure if I believe your ages on this one... A 30 yr old virgin is like finding a unicorn, or a bag full of money... its UNCOMMON OR UNHEARD OF! Just be gentle, if its her first time, do missionary only and I wouldnt expect to get off on the first try cuz she will be hurting and probably want to stop half way through. Good luck
2006-08-25 13:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 years old vergin?
well,i read the other people's answer that seem to be very surprise about this.
it's nothing strange,i'm from aisa,many asian girls that still vergin till 30s or more or some even never have sex for all their life. u know many countries in asia are very traditionaland religious culture and very conservative about sex.
so do missionary position,it less pain for virgin woman. but becareful,don't make her to feel so nervous or get pain. check it out that her vagina is getting wet enough,try to kiss a lots and touch her all the body for stimulate her feeling. don't forget to tell her that u love her,saying love can reduce nervouse feeling.
remember that if she start to get pain and can't stand for first time sex anymore,u have to stop (even u are not cilmax yet!). give her time to relax and try do it again another day.
don't worry u will have to do it again and again,but dont' force her to do if she can't.
important, don't let her awakening alone after u are climax. hug her till u two fall asleep together!
2006-08-25 13:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by kikk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
- A glass of wine or whatever she likes to help her relax. Not drunk.
- Lots of foreplay so she is thoroughly in the mood and really ready. It would almost be better to wait until she is close to demanding you enter her.
- A condom for both your protection.
- A tremendous amount of loving verbal reassurance before and after. This is a very personal thing for women - a huge deal. Respect that and make her feel how honored you are to be her first.
2006-08-25 13:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a virgin huh? Um.....
Start out by doing missionary....Something she's not embarrased or uncomfortable with. Let her open up to you with different ideas and things that she wants to do. Just let her do what comes natural to her at first. She'll open her wild side up eventually! Women's sexual peak is in their 30's so you never know! There might be a sex goddess inside dying to get out and make her first apperance!
2006-08-25 13:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you both undress, rub her clitoris gently with your hand and have her put vaseline on your penis. Then stick it in a little bit at a time. If she feels pain, stop and pull out a little and talk about it. Then go back in slowly.
It's easy if you are gentle.
The second time you can leave off the vaseline.
2006-08-25 13:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jane N Hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you have proof that she's a Virgin? And I'd like to make you aware of the fact that your first time will suck ***! BUT, since you're gonna do it, you'll need to make sure she's nice and lubricated! Don't try any of Ron Jeremy's or Peter North's positions, keep it simple! I do hope you're not using a condom...as condoms also suck ***! Remember to have fun and make sure when she feels you, you lie to her and tell her she just had an orgasm!
2006-08-25 13:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Start off with foreplay. Take your time with it In foreplay for your circumstance, the first position should be you on one knee and ask her to marry you.
Once you are married, sex is something that will be a little easier.
2006-08-25 13:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend is a virgin at 30? Isn't that a little unusual?
Are you two very religious, or is there some issue here that you are not divulging?
2006-08-25 13:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋