I try to spend as much time with him as I can, because if I don't, he gets pissed. But when I want him to spend time with me, it just doesn't happen. I feel like I'm doing all the work in our relationship and he maybe doesn't care as much about me as I do him. And when he spends time doing stupid little things instead of spending quality time with me, I get jealous and it causes trouble between us. I'm jealous of how much time he spends on everything besides me, what should I do?
2006-08-25 06:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems tht u r doing a lot for this relationship 2 work but even he should contribute, tell him directly or u also do the same thing he is doing to u tit for tat, maybe then he will understand. relationship cant work single hand-idly it needs balance from both otherwise its no use being in a relationship. good luck.
2006-08-25 06:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by naturelover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all... If you keep being jealous of his other activities and letting him know this will push him away more and more each time. Men dont like to be told how to spend their time or what they are not doing enough of.
It seems that this guy isnt ready for a commitment of a relationship whether its semi-serious or serious. It seems he just wants someone on the side for when he has nothing else to do. He has to busy of a schedule to be in a relationship but knows you will stick with him no matter what he does.
It really seems you need to move on and find someone else. If he really really cared about you and wanted this relationship he would ready to spend time with you for the most part. (dont get me wrong.. everyone needs time for themselves)
Face it.... the more they treat you like crap... the more you fall for them.
Good luck to you!
2006-08-25 06:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecure...its normal to feel that way when u care about someone so deeply. Reconnect with friends, do things on ur own that make u feel good. Give him his space and try not to nag. The more u pursue him and act jealous the more u'll push him away.
2006-08-25 06:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 15:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the beginning of a very unhealthy relationship. You can't force him to do anything. End this relationship now. Move on, you can do better. Jealousy is NOT normal in a healthy relationship.
2006-08-25 06:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by fogofwarcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to give you a really good answer. There are other factors involved also. Like: Are you a needy clingy person? Without some other objective information, can't tell.
2006-08-25 06:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a jealous hack.
2006-08-25 06:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL I REALLY CANT ANSWER THIS BECAUSE SO MUCH IS RUNNING THROUGH MY HEAD AND I DONT KNOW WHICH I WOULD RATHER PUT IN WRITING SO I BETTER LET THIS ONE PASS
I HOPE THAT YOU DO GET A GOOD ANSWER DURING THE DAY
2006-08-25 06:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u too keep distance from him so that he realizes some thing is missing in his life if he reallys has feelings for you.
2006-08-25 06:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by lovely gem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs time to himself for his friends and such.
grow up a bit here and act like an adult
2006-08-25 06:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋