The men I tend to be attracted to are the intelligent , calm, yet friendly guys but they always end up being men who are hard to get because they are either work aholics, focused on their long term goals, or just not readily available not because they are taken...and in the end...i go through this whole hassle of trying to get to know them and let them know i'm interested after socializing with them for a while...and in the end somethign happens and they enver find out how i feel or ...they just disappear one day or give mixed messages...I'm tired of getting my hopes up, being single, and waiting/wondering...
I try and give other guys with other personalities a chance but they are always missing something for me...so what can I do?
2006-08-25 06:17:50 · 13 answers · asked by Name Unknown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
enter the friendship without any expectations and if its meant to be ity will happen. u end up dissapointed cause u go in these friendships expecting something more and set yourself up for herataches. stop chasing an illusion and real love will find you.
2006-08-25 06:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by pachitoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, It took me a while before I started typing, I was tongue tied for a while. I know it can be hard sometimes when your ideal man is not available. But don't stress yourself, just go out be friendly, be confident, smile all the time, and the right one will come along when u least expect him.
2006-08-25 13:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a little more direct, ask them to lunch or coffee. Talk to them and tell them that you think that they are someone you might like to date. Ask if they are interested in exploring it or want to be just friends. In is all in the timing and technique. Keep it light and casual. If you do not get a definite green light, you have not wasted much time. Good Luck.
2006-08-25 13:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop searching, and wait to be found. The Bible says, that "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the Lord." While you are searching for Mr. Right at the airport, he came in by boat.
2006-08-25 13:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you keep getting burned by the successful guys.
Maybe you should go for a loser they seem to enjoy regular sex, and have no goals that will interfere with their love life.
2006-08-25 13:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your hurry? Have fun, don't think every man you meet might be your next husband. Go with the flow of friendship, and when things click, you will know!
2006-08-25 13:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a gigolo,that way you won't have the emotional hassle
2006-08-25 13:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably call me...........
seriously, go for the guy u said in the previous questions. leave him a number and then take it from there.
If it happens, it happens...
2006-08-25 13:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up. keep trying. trust your intuition. when you stop actively seeking that special someone, he'll come along.
2006-08-25 13:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as i say good things come to those who wait
2006-08-25 13:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋