I have just met this guy at a course I am doing, We have both said that we fancy each other but we are both shy and I am not sure how to make the first move please help.
2006-08-25 06:13:25 · 17 answers · asked by lozzi_pop22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just kiss him - I'm shy to but it worked for me when I met a girl as shy as I am!!
Take the dominant role!!!
2006-08-30 03:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Robbie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have made the first move by saying you fancy each other,. well done. sit with him at lunch to have some time to chat.talk about movies that are on at the moment and maybe he will ask you out to see one. at least you don't have to talk too much at first and will have something tosay afterwards. remeber he likes you too, so there is nothing to worry about. enjoy, it's all very exciting.
2006-08-31 09:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is the enemy... The only thing I can really say is try to work up the courage to make the first move. That's all you can really do is get the courage; basically enough where you won't be shy to.
2006-08-25 13:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by B.J. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before leaving, leave him a message on a piece of paper saying that you're waiting for him at the caffetteria at the corner (or whatever) ;O) it won't be too embarassing...
carpe diem! good luck...by the way can anyone explain me what lol mean?!? (I'm not english)
2006-08-25 13:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what does your heart tells you to do...listen to that spirit inside you and you'll over come that spirit which makes you to be shy...Try to feel comfortable when you are talking to him make your conversation interesting and you'll see that you both aren't shy...have a normal conversation talk about things you likeand so on...that's all i can tell you to do
2006-08-25 13:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him a question about the course.
2006-08-25 13:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to meet up for a drink after the course one nite.i dont know about you but alcohol takes away my shyness
2006-08-25 13:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by mizz1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is a good cook, and if he says yes then ask well when do I get to taste it and if he says no, then you say well it's just as well Im making you dinner then. And then just laugh and get it out, anxiety awaaaaay.
2006-08-25 13:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by kookiboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, c'mon, ask him out somewhere nice
just give him a couple of unequivocal looks, he'll either understand or he's not good enough in matters of the heart
2006-08-25 13:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Faith * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think to yourself "ah f**k it" - i have some awesome conversations with girls when i think like that. seriously. go in there head first without thinking. its because you're hesitating and planning your next move. just jump in!! you might suprise yourself! good luck hun
2006-08-25 13:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by 23:am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋