My friend and I have been freinds since I can remember..but ever since she had sex for the first time she has been almost obsessed with it...she has become very permiscuous...I didnt relly mind all that much...it is just that now she never calls me back when she is supposed to and the only time she ever calls me now is when she is having problems, yet when I try to talk bout my probs. she suddenly "has to go"...am I wrong for being mad at her? today is her birthday and I am gonna skip out on her birthday party cause she has pissed me off one too many times...
Is it wrong for me to be mad at her on my birthday?
2006-08-25 06:05:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol...yeah HER birthday...sorry didnt notice that...
2006-08-25 06:11:16 · update #1
YES>>>> A good friend will be there for her no matter what... If you consider yourself a good friend, put aside your problem and go to her bday party.
2006-08-25 06:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes friends do make you mad at time but today is her special day even though she doesn't call you back when she suppose and she calls only when she have problems. Remember you are the best friend here, she knows she can count on you when she is going through tough times. Try not to be mad at her, Don't skip out go to her party and make her day by showing up, if you don't matters may get even worser just because you didn't show up at her birthday being that you and her are close friends. Sit her down not today as it being her birthday tomorrow and tell her how you feel that when she doesn't communicate with you when you have problems just like you do when she does. Put your and her problem aside for today and go enjoy her party with her and talk about this tomorrow.
2006-08-25 06:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely address these problems because friendship is way more important than any man she is going to come across. But, you really ought to let her birthday party be about her and go and try and enjoy yourself. After that's all done then you can bring up the issues and work them out together. You're not wrong for being mad but your wrong for not going to her party because of this. Its down right petty and will just end up making you look bad.
2006-08-25 06:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can help you with some religious advice.
The Catholic Church says that it is wrong to be mad at someone on their birthday. It also says that it is wrong to have sex before marriage, or to enjoy sex during marriage. So it is very important to be sure of what you are doing regarding birthdays and sex.
I suggest you go to her birthday to show your friendship, but take with you some leaflets from your local Catholic Church explaining why she should stop all sex unless officially allowed by the Pope.
I hope you have a great time.
2006-08-25 06:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Pastor Sauce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good friend? I couldn't tell you if it's a good idea or not. "cause she is growing up in a weird way. And is too caught with it. All's you have to do. Be honest. Tell her how you feel....at the instant if she blows you off again...Try to keep some distance. Then when problems come up again. (just for while) be too busy. Then when she asks you what's up tell her how you felt. If she's a true friend she'll adjust...if not there are better people out there.
2006-08-25 06:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Punk_Rockin' Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try and go to her bday party for her sakes but if she pisses you off there, you leave. If you still consider her your friend, you want to at least know that you did the right thing by going (did your part). And no, it is not wrong for you to be mad at her. She changed and you obviously finds her new, annoying and promiscuous self very gross. Hey, I would too.
2006-08-25 06:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U said:
"today is her birthday and I am gonna skip out on her birthday party"
then u ask:
Is it wrong for me to be mad at her on my birthday?
C'mon man, Its your birthday or hers????
Anyways, she's not a good friend, she only needs u when she needs help, so dump her.
2006-08-25 06:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go to her birthday party, and then hang out afterwards and just talk to her about why she has changed so much. You're not wrong for being mad at her, she's betrayed you. If she doesn't want to talk about anything, dump her *** and say that you don't care about her problems when she calls you because she doesn't care about yours.
2006-08-25 06:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should go up to her and tell her how you feel don't just keep it from her,and about her havin sex just let her know your there for her but then again there could be a reason for her not returning your calls and stuff what if she's pregnant??? ask her stuff like that!! she'll come around thats just how gurls are believe me!!
2006-08-25 06:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 15:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by rocca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you have a right to be mad. But celebrate her bday. Tomorrow tell her how you feel. Stop calling her and the next time she calls you tell her that if she doesnt have time to hear your problems then you dont have time to hear hers.
2006-08-25 06:09:27 · answer #11 · answered by dionne m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋