this guy who is 2 years older that me likes me and its pretty obvious. i went on vacation w/ him and every morning he would be outside my camper, he would not stop talking to me and following me! how do i get him to leave? please dont just say "tell him how you feel" cause if i do, it will really hurt his feelings!
2006-08-25 06:03:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im not curently dating him or anyone else
2006-08-25 06:07:57 · update #1
Sweetie,U do have to tell him how u feel.But u can do it nicely.Try saying to him that u think he is a great guy and a wonderful friend but right now u are just not interested in a relationship period.That u just want to be a friend and even give Little and hang out or talk to him and maybe even help him find someone else he could be interested in.that way if he can have a new friend which really may be what he really needs and u can't ever have to many friends good luck
2006-08-25 06:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but you are going to have to hurt his feelings. The only other way he'd leave you a lone was if he thought you were a lesbian (might love that too), had an STD, or was a relitive. Maybe you should get a temporary boyfriend or ditch him as much as possible.
2006-08-25 06:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the reason he is still around...
your fear of hurting his feeling is hurting him more..
you are pretending and making him out to be a fool.
he needs to be told...or break off all contact with him
only one thing worse for a guy about continuing to persue a girl and she tells him to stop...that is he is a fool cause she is too afraid to let him know... just do this guy a favor and let him go
2006-08-25 06:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes just telling someone you don't like them does'nt work anyways so start talking about other guys. Unless you just come out and tell him you think he is lame then you have to give him suttle hints. Guys are not very smart to begin with so this migth take a while
2006-08-25 06:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by LOLITA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you can tell him hey you know what happened??? I've started datin an awesome babe magnet I'm really really happy and I'll keep you informed about all the thing which happens every day..reall easy it means you never had anything for him and you don't wanna hurt him..
2006-08-25 06:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm sorry to say this, but you do need to tell him how you feel, but it doesn't mean that it has to be harsh. Tell him that you think that he's great and everything, it's just that you don't like him that much. I know that you probably wish that there was another way out of this, but I really don't think that there is.
2006-08-25 06:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by dreamer456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... I thought you wanted to get away from him? If you do, then you actually have to tell him!! You're not gonna punch him down and that's that, you know! If you really DO want to leave him, you'll tell him!
2006-08-25 06:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is around and you see a really hot chick say this: "Wow she looks hot, do you think she would go out with me?" Even better, if he has a sister ask about her.
2006-08-25 06:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend. He should get the hint. If that doesnt work, then sweety your going to have to just tell him how you feel.
2006-08-25 06:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by dionne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like a boy. When he's staring at you...vomit at him or when he'd follow you throw him stones... Or just simply confront him sorry I'm not just into you.
2006-08-25 06:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by rock firm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋