Okay I go with this guy, lets call him Curtis, And I heard he was only going with me to.. u know have sex!! Well him & My best guy friend, Toby, don't like eachother!! And Toby is telling me to break up with hiim!! I realy like Toby and dont care too much for Curtis!! I mean, hes cute, nice, & cool. But He's too touchy feely!! Always tring to hold my hand or hug me!! And I dont like it!! You think he wuold get the picture when I pull away everytime but he doesnt!! Curtis Is always telling me that "Im the best thing that has happened to him & that he loves me!!" But we barel yKnow each other. I Know Toby really good, and I realy like him!! I mean I know it should be obvious! "Break up with Curtis Right?" well I kinda want to but i realy wana b with Toby!! And I dont wana hurt Curtis!! help me please
2006-08-25 05:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Toby Says that He really likes me!! And That he wants to be with me!! Thats why its so hard to decide!! :-(
2006-08-25 06:02:32 · update #1
Me & Toby went out for like a day a year ago!! But that was only because things happend and we got torn apart!! Well when school started back!! We started seein what we lost when we broke up!!
2006-08-25 06:12:15 · update #2
Why would you be afraid of hurting someone who obviously has no respect for you whatsoever? Immediately leave Curtis ASAP and stay with Toby; you actually know him and you seem to appreciate each other-- GO FOR IT.
Hope this helped and good luck!!
2006-08-25 06:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have already aswered your own ? Curtis doesn't mean that much to you to begin with, and from the sounds of it Toby didn't realize he liked liked you until Curtis came around. Curtis will be alright, but if you drag this along any longer Toby might think you are'nt picking up on his signals! Go for it! The best relationships are based on friendship anyways.
2006-08-25 13:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by LOLITA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down with Curtis and tell him that you don't feel the same towards him as he does towards you. I would also tell him that you need space and you can't deal with the way he is. Then you could always see what happens with the other guy, but the hard thing with dating a guy friend is that if it ends between the two of you then you might lose that friendship as well. Good luck
2006-08-25 13:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by starbright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh. Dump Curtis, hang out with Toby. Wow. That was really hard to answer, eh?
2006-08-25 13:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by fogofwarcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Curtis.
Ask Toby out.
2006-08-25 13:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answer your question.
Dump curtis, stick to Toby.
2006-08-25 13:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with curtis and go with toby
2006-08-25 13:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by g.a.p. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him how you really feel. how does toby feel about you?
2006-08-25 13:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋