What is the rule here? Is it different for men than it is women? I know for me I tend to say what I really mean but am to scared or reserved to say when I am sober. Is it the same for guys or do they just say BS? Do you just pretend like things that were said when there was a little too much alcohol involved weren't said? Do you ask them about it later?
2006-08-25 05:51:15 · 25 answers · asked by Red 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add that is was nothing bad, and we weren't with friends it was just the two of us. He said a lot of things, we talked till 4 in the morning but I don't know if he really meant all of it or if it was just the booze talking. Also he wasn't saying it to get a piece cause he said he just wanted to hold me and talk to my heart, which is what he did all night.
2006-08-25 06:00:46 · update #1
you know that's true for everyone.'cause you lose your inhitions when your drunk,and by the way,what's really on your mind comes out when you're drunk.
2006-08-25 05:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little different. Most guys act stupid all the time, but when they get really drunk, they act a fool. Women are more reserved (not all), and are DEFINITELY less inhibited when they're drunk; in the way they talk, walk, and especially sexually. You go after the best looking guy whether you have a boyfriend or married or whatever... the chemicals just take over. So, I ignore most things said, however, what you say can be what you truly think, and i've stopped dating chicks just because of that reason.
I wouldn't ask, but I would if the other people are acting strange around you. And besides, no one REALLY forgets what they did... that's just an excuse. You know what you did...
2006-08-25 05:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all the same with both men and women. Alcohol alters your way of thinking and is kind of a truth serum as well. You do tend to say things that are true that you may not say when your sober. Asking them about it later will only prove that they were too drunk to even remember what they said or did. Don't waste your time. Just remember what they said when they were drunk. 9 times out of 10 it's the truth.
2006-08-25 05:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ended up becoming too insecure about the relationship because of things he would say. It really hurt me sometimes, and the next day it would show so then he would ask me what was wrong and I would remind him of the things he said. I think anyone drunk can hurt other peoples feelings so if it was something you want to bring up then do it. I did because one night he actually made me cry. The only way to deal with a drunk is to have a buzz yourself or thats how I feel about it. When I would be drinking too then we always got along.
2006-08-25 05:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend not to believe what I'm told when my boyfriend is drunk. I also speak the truth but I'm not willing to take the chance that he's just talking out of his *** and I took everything he said to heart....If he wont say it sober or doesn't remember when you ask him it was probably a bunch of hot air.
2006-08-25 05:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually do the same thing... speak the truth when they drink. My husband has said some stuff before that didnt make sense when he was drunk and I ask him to clarify later and he did and THEN it made sense...Like he once said that it is hard for most people to ONLY sleep with ONE person for the rest of their lives... I took it as it would be hard for him to be with just me forever... He meant being hard for a person to sleep with ONLY one person forever- as in never having been with anyone else... That I can understand... the first thought kinda pissed me off.
2006-08-25 06:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing, I say things I have bottled in me when I am drunk. I may over exsagerate too. I talk about it afterwards with my spouse to see what it is I said to offend him and if I was BS or what. Most of the time I get angry and violent when I am drunk and say the hurtful things to him so I stopped drinking and got real with him. I think it is good to talk about what was said so things don't get left hurt and undone you know. good luck
2006-08-25 05:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by blu2u1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first response. I've known people who would stand right in front of you and tell you a lie that you knew was a lie and they swear it's the truth. And I've known people who start telling the truth.. like it's a truth serum or something. My friend does both when he's drunk.. so it really depends on the person and the situation.
2006-08-25 05:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Girl gone wild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, things come out that normally I would be too reserved to say. Is it me or the booze talking? I don't know, but sometimes it works out quite nicely!
2006-08-25 05:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said inhibitions are gone when drunk so most likely they are telling you what is on their mind. A friend of mine got drunk and kept calling his gf his ex wife's name. We made him realize this and now they have a better relationship cause he got over da ex.
2006-08-25 05:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually, even I ignore the things i say when im drunk...of course it doesn't happen often, but for the most part, it all seems to be nonsense, except when i get really messed up, because then i get guilty and apologetic...its not a pretty picture.
2006-08-25 05:55:18 · answer #11 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋