What should I do to get all the stress and responsability out of my head? I will allways take care of my sis but how do I deal with the fact that she cant walk, talk, or even hang out with me?
2006-08-25 05:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What should I do to get all the stress and responsability out of my head? I will allways take care of my sis but how do I deal with the fact that she cant walk, talk, or even hang out with me? I wasnt driving by the way I am only 13 but I was in the car with her! My mom hit black ice!
2006-08-25 06:01:00 · update #1
What should I do to get all the stress and responsability out of my head? I will allways take care of my sis but how do I deal with the fact that she cant walk, talk, or even hang out with me? I wasnt driving by the way I am only 13 but I was in the car with her! My mom hit black ice!
2006-08-25 06:01:07 · update #2
What should I do to get all the stress and responsability out of my head? I will allways take care of my sis but how do I deal with the fact that she cant walk, talk, or even hang out with me? I wasnt driving by the way I am only 13 but I was in the car with her! My mom hit black ice!
2006-08-25 06:01:17 · update #3
Just be thankful that you still have her in your life. She should not be treated any differently than before the accident. She's still your sister. Love her.
2006-08-25 05:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only 2 people that can help is you and your sis ! i know its a bad thing and its really hard for you to deal with ! but you cant just get way from it just like that ! face it think about it and then decide what you gona do ! but first thing is to ask your sis for forgiveness i am sure she would give it to you even if you think that she cant hear you well she can and she would feel better about it ! and stop treating it like its the end of the world coz its not ! your alive ain't you, don't you think that things happen for a reason they to find out whats the reason for it and try to deal with it ! by the way stop feeling sorry for your self coz its not helping you or her its destroying you Boothe. just take care of her love her and be there for her when she needs you you would be rewarded in the end how i don't know ! god workers in a mysterious ways believe me ! you just have to do what you have to and wait !
best of luck wishing you all the best and hope that your sis is gone be better soon
2006-08-25 13:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidents happen that is why they are called accidents. I am sorry to hear about your sister but think of it this way she is still here for you to love. Ask for some help with her tell someone that you cannot do all of the work by yourself. She may not be able to walk or talk but you still can talk to her and do things with her. Look at it in another light she is here with you now show her all the love you can give her.
2006-08-25 12:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you caused the accident or were driving, it may be very hard for you to deal with this without some professional help. They can help you to come to terms with all that has happened, and will help you repair your relationship with your sis. If it has been this long, and you still have feelings of guilt, please ask for help with this. There is nothing wrong with asking for help, it may be the best thing you have done for both you and your sis.
2006-08-25 12:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by OnE GiRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go to a "shrink" and talk to them. Those doctors can really help. Talk it out and get it out in the open. It has a way of opening your mind from the hurt and let's you move on with your life. That's nice that you will always be there for your sister but you need to try to get over the incident yourself. God bless.
2006-08-25 12:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come into realization that u cannot chage the corse of the past but you can change what happens in the future! you have to be able to be strong and not give up or be angry at the world... it hurtst to see the peopl we love ill or sick or in worse cases impaired. But put yourself in there shoues
woudl u want them toi give up and loose out on life becuase you may be sick. NOpe so get up and live life for her and share yor life with her and tell her to share what she saw on televsion or on talk shows, i am pretty sure that she will want you to do this
2006-08-25 12:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Justice A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the reason is that you really blamed your self for an incident that happens without any result or confirmation....i lost my mother in car accident and i'm only 17...i took and accepted it...the only thing you have to do is just move on and talk about it...i know trust is not the word you will never believe butit works .....speak out...cry and let it go...it won't be easy...i know it reality and this is what it offers to us...REAL CHALLENGES....and I'm really sorry what happen'd to your sister God bless you
2006-08-25 13:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Zu'mayn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry. It was an accident, not an on purpose. I know you feel responsible, perhaps you need someone to talk to - a consular or perhaps your minister. Just remember she is still your sister and you love her.
2006-08-25 12:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ,I am very sorry to what happened to your sister,but...... you got to forget what happened,its your sister at the end and you should in this case of the accident give her more attention & care.
2006-08-25 13:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by Amrouch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some professional help.
2006-08-25 12:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋