My fiancee Greta and I are both catholics and want a church wedding with a priest.
But we are not sure if the catholic church will allow the wedding in church because of Gretas line of work, adult entertainment.
She was working at the Buena Vista Massage Parlour, one of the top establishments on the ring road. They dont accept rough women, so you get the picture that Greta is classy.
Because of a business disagreement with the BV, Greta is now more freelance, under the guidance of her business manager Rico. Rico is a decent sort, a catholic too, and always has a gold cross hanging from the chain around his neck next to the silver bullet.
Neither of us inject.
So you can see we live good and proper.
Can anyone advise what the catholic church might say?
2006-08-25 05:48:44 · 24 answers · asked by Pastor Sauce 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hehe, I'm not sure what you expected from the Christians in this section... but I'll tell you now, it's not gonna be positive.
Hope you're wearing asbestos underwear, 'cause you're gonna be flamed :)
2006-08-25 05:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Eldritch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my friend was married, the guy was a Catholic so they decided to get married in a Catholic church. Before they could, she had to become Catholic, go to get counseling from an already married couple, etc...I'm sure you know everything they need to do. Anyway, my point is, she had an interview with the priest and he asked her if she believed that the cracker and wine she got transformed into flesh & blood. That, and a few other things she thought were ridiculuos but she wanted to get married in that church so she basically SAID WHAT THEY WANTED TO HEAR. She didn't feel bad using 'white lies' b/c she thought it was ridiculous to be rejected for not believing something that can't be proven.
I don't know if they'll do a background check or already know what her job is, but I don't think it's their business. Tell them she's an actress. She does that while she's performing, right? Besides, Abraham told a Pharoah and a king Sarah was his sister even though she was his half-sister (& wife). He just neglected to tell him everything. See? God even agrees.
2006-08-25 06:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by strpenta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the Catholic Church will agree to that. Whether she is classy or freelance or anything, they won't like it because she is an adult entertainer, period. "has a gold cross hanging from the chain around his neck next to the silver bullet"? Is he afraid a vampire or werewolf will attack him? And to tell you the truth, depending on the Baptist Church, they won't either. I am a Baptist and I know my church doesn't tolerate that kind of stuff.
2006-08-25 06:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jen G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the church should have any problem. If corrupt politicians, rapists and other criminals can marry in the church why not you guys. And you guys are not even criminals. Being in the adult entertainment does not mean you are committing a crime. At the end who watches the show, the porno movies and other adult stuffs?? The so called normal people ,the politicians and who knows even the priests might be watching..Don't listen to the hypocrites.. Go ahead and have a wonderful wedding..
2006-08-25 06:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by The Inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see why the Catholic church would object, they are a cult anyway, not a true Christian denomination.
And gee, you two sound so religious anyway, her being in adult entertainment, as you put it. I guess you want your marriage blessed? Do you honestly think God will honor your marriage?
I love that Rico wears a cross, how saintly of him...does he have a halo too? I'll bet Greta does too, right?
Lol....
2006-08-25 05:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of good and proper people that are going to hell. If the Catholic church refuses to conduct the wedding, I would not blame them. I would not perform it as long as the two of you are involved in the sex business---and you are involved because you want to marry her; you cannot separate yourself from her line of work. Please do not tell me that you harm no one, for the sex business is directly aimed at the destruction of marriage---marriage is the chief enemy of the sex business because marriage is ordained and sanctified by God and the sex business is Satan's chief tool against mankind. Get out of the business if you want a clean marriage---money is not everything. Your immortal souls are far more valuable than anything that you can possess on earth.
2006-08-25 06:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Preacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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I understand that you don't like it if he dances and flirts in front of you. But guys are guys. And many guys don't see anything wrong with this. I know you feel hurt if he does that in front of your face. And it is disrespectful. But there are ways you can talk to your boyfriend if he's flirting while he's with you. You only have to tell him that it hurts you and that it's disrespectful and then ask him to stop doing it when he’s with you.
I don't know if getting back with your ex is going to last because now you have two problems. You were having problems with him because of his flirting and now you will have another problem because of this girl that he's going out with. It is eating you alive that he's involved with this girl and you know he's probably sleeping with her. How are you going to handle that if you get back together? Because of your jealousy and your insecurities are you going to be able to forget that he was ever involved with this girl? You really need to work on this and make sure if you try to get him back that you never again mention about his flirting or this girl. You can mention one more time how his flirting affects you but it has to stop there.
You asked how do you compete with the girl he's involved with. I looked at the picture and I can tell that your ex knows how to go for beautiful girls. So that give me a clear picture about how you look. I have a feeling that you are also very beautiful but for some reason I don't think you see yourself that way. The only thing I can tell you is that your boyfriend did not leave you because he didn't love you. He left you because of your jealousy and because you were clinging to him. If you love his as much as you say you do then fight for him and get him back. And if you do get him back then make sure that you can promise him that you will no longer be jealous, clingy or insecure about your relationship with him. If you can't promise him that then you may as well forget about him because it won't work if you don't change,
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2016-04-23 19:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're good and proper because you don't use dope?? rico is a decent sort because he wears a gold cross?? wow, you people are truly walking on gods path, you should have your own church!! c'mon, this question can't be serious. if you think you're gonna offend God by getting married in his church don't do it, if it really matters to you.
2006-08-25 05:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by drtyfckr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋