If we're friend with you and one day I told you "I love you and I'd like to date with you" What will you do when you hear that.
I wonder your idea please share with me
Best Regards
Mesut
2006-08-25 05:47:28 · 26 answers · asked by PhotoARTist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
********I've had someone do that to me. We were really close friends. As I was having problems with my close boyfriend I always knew I had a shoulder to rest my head on ... his. Finally the boyfriend of 2 years and I broke up. I asked if that friend could pick me up & take me to the beach so that I may clear my head ... & have someone to reason with. He looked into my eyes under the stars and told me his feelings toward me ... then leaned over and tried to kiss me. I was scared, embaressed then furious with him. I got mad cause he never told me then ended up telling him that I didn't want to have that sort of relationship with him. I held him very high as my friend and didn't want to jeopardize that. We do not talk anymore at all ... and he has moved out of state. I am in full regret of losing this guy. BUT now I know that if I had someone that close to me tell me his feelings ... and knew that he was good person, then I would recognize that he would be my ideal boyfriend. GO FOR IT!! It's the best thing you could do.
2006-08-25 06:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how I feel about you and how much I know about you. If we were good friends and I know that you are an individual that I can see myself with in a long term relationship, then I would say, let's give it a try. It would be great because we built a friendship first as a good foundation. If for some reason, I did not feel the way you did, I would tell you nicely that I am touched that you feel that way about me, but instead of leading you on, as a friend, I don't feel the same as you do and I love being your friend and would like to continue our relationship on a friendship level.
2006-08-25 05:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on the person, if he felt the same way yu did then no problem at all, but if he was just into a friendship thing it may really put him off, if your really good friends then you must have some insight to his feelings, adk him something like, Would you ever consider being moe than just friends?
2006-08-25 05:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be surprising, then depending on how I felt about you I'd make my decision of whether or not to take it further than friendship in a few days to make sure it's what I want. I would also make sure that we could stay friends after if this doesn't work out.
2006-08-25 05:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how I felt with you. If you are a close friend I would prolly at least take the offer but just explain to you how I felt.
2006-08-25 05:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by lttlbt22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't know but i wouldn't get mad or upset, nothing like it, it would be flattering for sure. as far as any feelings in return well I'd give it a try, why not, i mean if i wasn't dating someone else at a time
2006-08-25 05:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by D.J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...if you re a guy, i would say, get the hell out of here u fag!
If you re a girl, depends if I think you re pretty.
If you are, then i would probably say: Actually i feel the same.
If u r not, i would say, im sorry but i dont feel that way.
2006-08-25 05:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell whom ever it is that you have developed feelings for them and ask them how they feel about you. Then you will have the information you need to take it from there. Good Luck!
2006-08-25 05:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how beautiful you are. Sorry but I like beautiful women. If you are a dude, I would knock your teeth out!
2006-08-25 05:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Richard B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure buddy are you dating the person are you just friends I need more details
2006-08-25 05:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋