is it wrong to just have sex with a 18 guy and im 41? im confused help
2006-08-25 05:26:12 · 21 answers · asked by tlindamt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My first response is "Good for you, girl!" However, there are implications in this. As another member said, *wrong* is a relative term.
If you have children, this presents an interesting issue. I don't know if you have sons or daughters, but how would you feel if your 18 year old daughter brought home a 41 year old man? Or if your 18 year old *son* brought home a 41 year old man! Not pretty, my dear.
The problem lies in the emotional maturity of the 18 year old. What if he "falls in love" (presuming he even knows what love is, a doubtful proposition to say the least) with you? Are you going to want to be with him? This seems as doubtful, hopefully more doubtful, than him actually being in love with you.
As it is not illegal, there is no problem there.
Let your expectations be known. Let your limits be known. Do not play with his head. Don't be surprised when he moves on.
2006-08-25 05:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by TurboLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong is such a relative term. it's not illegal, but who's to say if it's wrong or not as long as it's consentual? why are u so uptight about it anyway?
wuts wrong here is that people are so sexually naive and uptight about a god-given act. there aint nothing wrong with sex, only the wrong people having sex.
2006-08-25 12:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by mex-o-funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a mother of 7 yes it is wrong you need to be a role model to your kids cuz they are going to observe and pick up on what you do. that l ike having sex with one of your kids. yes i feel it is wrong young is not wrongbut 18 yes you need someone to beat s ome sense in ya
2006-08-25 12:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if you enjoy it. When my wife was 50 she had sex with two 19 year old guys and loved it.
2006-08-25 13:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that has you wanting to be with an 18yr old. What can he do for you? Im asking cuz I dont see the intrest you will have in him. But good luck to you
2006-08-25 13:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by poohbeark19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright to have someone (way) younger...as long as you dont take advantage of his talents...he should finish college and not be totally into sex only...If he finishes his degree...think "nice house, nice lot, great job..." doesnt it sound nice? let him make his future before you think about your future together...
2006-08-25 12:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong. it just looks wrong to others because of the age difference
2006-08-25 12:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by free2themax2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you have no children then i can see why you would want someone you can teach 2 eat with a fork .. lmao
2006-08-25 12:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stella get your grove back baby
2006-08-25 12:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's sooooooooo wrong...it's ike your taking advatage of him. He's barely an adult, leave him alone lady!!!
2006-08-25 12:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋