So me and my boyfriend of eight yrs are back together althrough it seems like we never broke up , we still remain living together ,what happen was I found him on a site we had intially went on as a couple on some freaky **** ,but I change my mind because it was hard finding the right couple to join us ,So he was still wanting to do it and went up there solo ,he was IM people and everything ,even had it on he cell ,when I found out ,I was pissed ,We kinda broke up ,said we were going to see other people.So I went on a site ,met a guy and got him back BIg Time ,due to the fact he never met anyone (so he claims ) ,but anyway the guy turned out to be a jerk ,My man found out and went crazy ,I felt bad cause he was so hurt ,but **** I was hurt too .I know two wrongs don't make a right but it felt good, he cried like a baby and beg for me back ,after 2 weeks I gave in ,I love him so much ,and my heart felt there was no other decision to make,plus we have a kid and he a great father ,so....
2006-08-25 05:08:06 · 14 answers · asked by Killaboo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O.k u guys are right we do need some maturing and I think we both realize it
2006-08-25 05:37:04 · update #1
he still text messaging her ,I think the peps who said it wasn't were right.
2006-08-26 02:20:51 · update #2
Why continue to put yourself through hard ache and pain. If he's going to be a good father, he'll be one if you are with him or not. You all have too much going on in this relationship. Why do you think that this time will make any difference. Don't become complacent b/c of the amount of years that you all have been together. Sometimes we have to move beyond our feelings and look at what's before our eyes. I've been in love before and thought that I couldn't live w/o this man. But trust me, you have to love yourself and your child more than to stay in a harmful relationship. Harm can be physical, mental or emotional......
2006-08-25 05:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already made your choice by taking him back, so don't comtemplate about whether it will work or not. There is no turning back now, you need to focus on your future with your husband and your baby.
However, marriage needs to be manage and compromise for it to be successful. It seems like both of you have to learn how to compromise with each other and you have a long way to go.
I would suggest both of you should start picking up some books on marriage or go to marriage counseling consider what has happened in the past. If both of you still carry the same attitude and mentality as before, no marriage or relationship will work for both of you, no matter who you are with.
2006-08-25 12:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody has did things in there life that has hurt somone at one point or anyother so if you and ya man can come to point in yall lives to forgive and move on i say go for it just dont bring up old and past things that happen and be very honest and let him know how you feel and i hope he will do the same with you if you dont have commuication in a relationship trust then why be in one i am going through the same thing love me and my baby daddy just got back together because i called it quits because of his cheating and i waited until i told him it was over to do my thing so who am i to judge just keep it real with each other
2006-08-25 12:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 2 have kid together but into playing games seem like that is what the kid u 2 had would be doing...GROW UP AND STOP HURTING EACH OTHER .2 WRONGS DONT MAKE IT RIGHT...AND IF U THOUGHT ABOUT IT WHAT IF U TRY TO GET U BACK AGAIN THEN THE HURT IS GOING START ALL OVER AGAIN..LEAVE THE KIDS GAME TO UR LITTLE ONE
2006-08-25 12:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have issues that you need to work out. I was dating a guy who was talking to a girl on the internet . He said he never met her but i knew he had. We broke up i moved out of town then like 4 days later we decided to try it again. He came and got me and it was like we never broke up it was awsome for a few days then things went back to the same old crap. Then i caught him in a lie he lied we lost our house in the process and now we are not together anymore. we both had problems that we could not work out. I mean if you really love him like you say you do then you can work it out as long as he is willing to try to work it out with you.
2006-08-25 12:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by michelle_justice25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but no i dont think it's gonna work because it's too much drama and not enough love , respect and mainly trust. it may work for a little while longer plus you all have a baby. the issue is always gonna hang over yall relationship like a dark cloud trust me. but i wish yall well
2006-08-25 12:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by queen2be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 99¢ Store has Carmelita® beef chorizo now!!! I'm gonna go get some!!!
2006-08-25 12:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds to me like there needs to be some growing up done in this house i mean you have a child so both of you need to start acting like an adult and stop playing games
2006-08-25 12:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama. you shouldnt being playing games like that. you both need to grow up (no offense) but you do. in a real relationship you never intentionally hurt your partner. that is if you really love them.
2006-08-25 12:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you guys were together before it did not work out for your reasons,, so why would you think it would work out now, obviously theres something wrong and i hope that you find out what it is, i still think that you were not right in going out and ding whatever jsut to make him feel bad,,,, why lower yourself to his level. good luck
2006-08-25 12:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋