My X lied to me and I want to confront her about the lies.
2006-08-25 05:06:11 · 8 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it, but do it with proof, because she is bound to deny it. I've been there done that.
2006-08-25 05:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look dear the worst thing is dishonesty...... if u r not truthful then no matter what relationship u follow, it will break someday.....and the worst part the people who has a habit of lying they will lie no matter what happens.... so in my opinion u must try to make the person how bad u felt when she did it..... u will not eat her if she tells u the right thing... make her feel that u r an honest person and will appreciate if she tells the truth u will be by her side.... and after all if she has chosen the wrong path to shed all the ties then make her fell that it was also possible if she would had told the truth...... and if Ur relation lies on unfaithful and is fake then why u will be around or wanting her she will someday mislead u and will develop misconceptions... so better shed all the ties and be on the path of truthfulness... and once relationships are broken it will never be like the same take it from me just like when a glass breaks no matter how much u try the crack will always be there.......
hope i was able to answer ur question...
regards
2006-08-25 12:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by prasun s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comfort or confront?
I think you should confront if she lied. I myself have regretted in not doing so. And comfort her then, if you come to know that she might have lied for some hidden benefits of your own... lol What am I sayin?... Confront her...
2006-08-25 12:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHHHHH!
YOUR QUESTION SAID "COMFORT" BUT THE ADDITIONAL INFO SAID "CONFRONT".....
WHY BOTHER GIVING IT YOUR TIME AT ALL? SHE IS YOUR EX. END OF STORY. MOVE ON. GET BACK AT HER BY IMPROVING YOUR LIFE WITHOUT HER.
AREN'T YOU ASHAMED OF YOURSELF FOR BEING WRAPPED AROUND YOU EX'S LITTLE FINGER? WOULD YOU ADMIT THIS TO YOUR FRIENDS?
FIND A NEW GIRL TO DATE WHO RESPECTS YOU AND IS TRUSTWORTHY.....AND IS SO COOL YOU WILL WANT TO BRAG TO YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT HER.....
2006-08-25 12:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES CONFORTING TYOUR EX IS HARD BECAUSE IT CAN BRING BACK MEMORIES GOOD AS WELL AS THE BAD. AND IT MIGHT SEEM THAT YOU WANT THEM BACK. DO IT IN A WAY THAT BENEFITS U.
2006-08-25 12:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by tmacbaby80 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should present some evidence and everything so she doesn't put herself in denial because everyone would do almost everything to deny themselves from those things. but be smooth about it and everything.
2006-08-25 12:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by jmacgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well are u going to COMFORT her or CONFRONT her?
2006-08-25 12:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh boy oh boy oh boy
2006-08-25 12:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋