He lives over 30 miles from me, comes to see me every day but I've never met any of his friends. It's only been a few weeks. We always chill at my house or hang in my neighborhood. Is he embarrassed of me or does it just work out that way?
2006-08-25 05:00:25 · 29 answers · asked by Pardonthepun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not think he is married. He spends WAY too much time with me if you know what I mean. :-)
2006-08-25 05:11:11 · update #1
He may be embarassed about his friends, or may be scared that you'll like one of them better. Worse case scenario, he could have a deep dark secret that lurks 30 miles away.
2006-08-25 05:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it has only been a few weeks why are you spending so much time together? Get out of the house! Go on a REAL date. Plan meaningful and fun things to do away from your house.
This way he will not get burned out on you and will respect you more because you will be expecting to be treated like a real girl-friend or at least a potential one.
If he does not want to do this it is possible that he is embarrassed of you. It is also possible that he is boring, a loser, poor, married/committed to someone else, or has no friends.
But if you continue to coddle him and let him hang at your house you will never know the answer and you will be wasting your life as well.
Go out and have fun. Don't be a cheap date or appear needy. If he really likes you and is proud of you he will put forth some effort. Otherwise you need to find someone who will.
2006-08-25 12:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetie it doesn't work that way. He more than likely has a girlfriend, wife and kids, or he maybe gay. You never know these days. But there is nothing normal about your situation. You should tell him that you want to visit with him and his family and he can't come over until you visit him. Then again, he may be embarrassed by the way he lives who knows but its never a good thing to keep secrets like this from each other. Talk to him and find out the real reason he doesn't want you over. Either way just seems like you need to let him go. God bless you
2006-08-25 12:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He drives 30 miles to see you everyday, doesn't sound like he's embarressed of you. Now, if he came all that way and wanted to stay in the house and not be seen with you then I'd think he could be. But maybe he just likes your neighborhood better then his own. He may just enjoy spending time with you. Like you said it's only been a few weeks.
2006-08-25 12:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has only been a few weeks...Relax! He would not travel 30 miles each day if he did not like you. Keep smiling!
2006-08-25 12:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't have any friends. lol It has only been a few weeks. If he drives for an hour round trip every day he obviously likes you.
2006-08-25 12:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by oceanjen2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure he not married or in another relationship?Or it could be he drives 30 miles to see you maybe he dosent want to drive another 30 miles back and then again to take you home.Gas prices are pretty high.Maybe you should ask him this question.
2006-08-25 12:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this with my girlfriend. And now she knows all my friends. At first when I met here I wanted her all to myself. You have to remember Guys can be like dogs! If they see something they like, their Dick takes over and they want that thing that they like. So maybe he is just trying his best to keep you to himself. Sooner or later he will introduce you to them, but he must be comfortable doing that first. You can help by telling him that he is the only man for you, and that if his friends like you that he should be proud he has such a sexy woman. If you do need any further advice I will be happy to help you on it. greg.palenschat@gmail
2006-08-25 12:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may just like spending time with you and devoting all his attention to you. It may not be you he's embarrassed about...it might be his friends. Or maybe he thinks they might try to steal you away.
Ask to meet his friends. If he hesitates, then be cautious.
Good luck!
2006-08-25 12:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I avoided introducing my girlfriends to my friends. It's mostly because I didn't trust them not to be complete idiots. It had nothing to do with the girl. If he's dating you, he isn't thinking about who would or wouldn't approve of you. You are more important to him than the other people in his life, so if anything, he's embarassed of his friends, not of you.
2006-08-25 12:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋