she's 24. i'm 33. i believe their is a huge attraction between both of us. we both stumble when we talk to each other. i can't stop looking at her. she can't stop looking at me. we have to work everyday with each other. she's asking alot of personal questions to me. i'm trying my best to keep it professional. i really like her alot.
2006-08-25 04:43:52 · 17 answers · asked by matpex37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
infatuation at first sight is very common.
love is about actions, about caring for another person's needs as much or more than your own.
in the USA, this situation is not generally well-accepted by the big bosses. it can hurt your career.
2006-08-25 04:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is for sure, LUST at first sight. But you do gotta remember that she's your boss and that's not proffesional at all. And it's not even allowed anymore in situations like this. (she's your boss)
SO the only way that it could be possible was for you to quit the job or for her to step down from being the boss. Which one is more likely?
Good luck =D
2006-08-25 11:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of personal questions is she asking? lol well she is over 18 and it is legal for you to date her, but you just need to know if she is okay with dating a man that is like 10 years older than her!lol but anyway look at Beyonce and Jay Z, Beyonce is about to turn 25 and Jay Z is 36 love it love and if you really care about her than just go for it. but be careful because you might make a wrong move and it could ruin your friendship.
2006-08-25 11:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by poohbear's_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well despite the age difference, you could still have a Cameron Justin type thing if you wanted. The only real obstacle is that she's your boss. If you end up breaking up, you could seriously put your job in danger. Is she worth it? If you don't mind the endless possibilities of things that could go awry, go for it!!
2006-08-25 11:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new job, and then ask her out.
This is unprofessional of both of you and one or both of you could damage your careers. Love at first sight in the office? Doubtful, sounds more like a strong attraction. But attraction is not love.
2006-08-25 11:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes this kind of situation happens but i think the best way to deal with it is to believe in your instincts, if you feel like you 2 could have a nice time together and she might like you then try to get noticed more but don't let her know that you really like her just act like you want to have a good r/n ship with her and don't move forward quickly just let her feel comfortable around you and then see if it goes forward. good luck
2006-08-25 11:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah!! Just remember ONE thing.... Statistics show that most married couples met at work, however statistics also show that MOST married couples (69%) end in divorce... So say you two do hook up, plan on either losing your job or having to find a new one.
2006-08-25 11:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i believe in attraction at first sight. it takes getting to know someone to actually fall in love with them. keep it professional, but if she does make more suggestions, suggest lunch one day and see how it goes! good luck!
2006-08-25 11:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...
well
do you like her?
if not
then keep it professional
if not, then invite her to your next meeting or somethin
after that, take her to this nice dinner that you like and she doesnt know about
after that, say goodbye, and daydream for the rest of the night
afterwards, keep it goin
another dinner
maybe a movie
and you can go from there
go ask advice from somebody who isnt thirteen
2006-08-25 11:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by beezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only believe in Lust at first sight. And Love at first sound.
2006-08-25 11:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by Unmade Promises 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋