I want to know if guys like it whena girl wont give it up that quick? What do you think when she makes you wait?
2006-08-25 04:43:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
who the hell cares what he wants....what do YOU want? hunny im 22, and ive made planty of guys wait and they're STILL waiting...lol ( if u know what i mean) im a beautiful 22 year old latina, but i have my head on str8. dont let any guy try to talk u into something that u dont want to do. be strong! u can do it. and it'll soooo be worth the wait. :o) what if u end up sleeping with a guy and then he breaks up with u (cuz thats all he wanted) ur gonna be DEVASTATED. then ur gonna kick urself inthe butt for giving it up to that jackhole that didnt give a rats azz about u. wait for the right one. i was engaged and STILL didnt do anything. i broke it off, and im so glad that i decided to save myslef, bc now im about to marry a great man, and couldnt imagine giving myself to anyone but him :o) be strong.
2006-08-25 04:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
From experience, making a guy wait is a touchy subject, open to everyone's opinion and obviously open to interpretation.
If a girl give it up too fast, she is labelled a "sl*t", but if she makes a guy wait for it, she becomes a "tease".
Also, each guy will react differently to the waiting period, which is also open to individual interpretation. The time factor is relative from person to person so what would be considered a decent amount of time to wait for one guy may end up being too long a wait for another.
Personaly, I find that I don't mind waiting at all for (what some have described as way too long) some time as long as I know I will eventually "get it". If the wait's end result is nothing, then it falls under the realm of un-necessary teasing, and THAT can be absolutly infuriating.
Cheers!
2006-08-25 13:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet him for the first time ask him to tell you a little about himself, then he will want to know some things about you, and that's when you tell him you are waiting until you get married to have sex, and once you get that out the way you won't have to worry if he gets turned off from having to wait, you will know the answer if he calls you again, and now you have control of If, When, How, Where and Why you have sex. I am proof that it works, been with my husband 27 years, we hooked up when i was 17yrs.
2006-08-25 12:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by chillierrogue6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my brother went with a girl and then became engaged then married her she was a virgin. When he wanted sex he would go elsewhere. They were a couple for 6 years before they were married Jr high, high school and part of college. My brother learned to stray and continued to do so for the 20 years their marriage lasted. Finally his wife got enough and left him.
I slept with my husband the night I met him. Neither of us has strayed. It was the second marriage for both of us and we have been together over 20 years and are very happy
2006-08-25 12:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by BUPPY'S MEME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individuals.....I really don't think they get turned off as much as pissed off. Remember too that if you give it up too quickly they got what they wanted and now are going to move on to the next one. If they care about you they will wait....just don't be a tease be straight forward and honest.
2006-08-25 11:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by leoan_rasan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A girl should make a guy wait....to at least me that much more sure he's not just in it for sex...and yes..being teased will make the sex better once the guy finally gets it.
2006-08-25 11:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by gooterscooby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares what a guy likes or doesn't like? It's the girl's body and she doesn't have to give any excuses if she wants to wait. If a guy dumps a girl just because of that, then he wasn't the right guy for her anyway!
2006-08-25 11:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Demon Doll 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If it's the first time they are going to do it, then, that's ok.
However, if she's just holding out on him, that is so NOT cool. Don't use sex (or lack thereof) as a punishment.
2006-08-25 11:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait! who cares what the guy thinks
2006-08-25 11:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Alissa 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess i wudnt wanna wait that long...
2006-08-25 11:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by UK GUY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋