2006-08-25 04:37:21 · 21 answers · asked by LadyRaven 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mom said I am damaged goods, no guy would be interested. Want to prove mom wrong.
2006-08-25 04:40:38 · update #1
yes. Men don't think your situation as bad as you think. Of course some men (who haven't ever married) probably want to make their own kids first, but as we get older MOST women have kids and the situation is unavoidable.
I know I would, but I would have to love that person. That's the hard part. It's not about the kids or the divorce. It's about how he feels about you. Becareful and don't let him lead you along with phrases like, "Don't pressue me" or "I don't know how I feel about you".
If he loves you (or really really likes you) then he will tell you. Anyhing else, he is just friends with benifits.
Good luck.
PS Your real issue is with the relationship between you and your mom. She sounds like a real negative in your life. You may need her to help you with your kids (and she may need you .. for love, to be with her grandkids, and to have a life) but you can't let her negativity make you crazy or do crazy things. Becareful with venom like "her words" in your life.
2006-08-25 04:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not a man but I am a divorced woman with three kids and I have never had problems with a lack of dates. I always let people know up front that I have three children too. My problem seems to be that I have more people to date than I want. I only have interest in one man, a single father with 2 children.
2006-08-25 05:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was single I dated several women who were divorced and had kids. Heck one even had seven kids. A woman having kids doesn't make her any less attractive unless the guy simply isn't interested in anything more than a quick hook up or doesn't like kids.
2006-08-25 04:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would date you
2006-08-25 04:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by KAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man but I am a woman who has 2 kids who is now pleasantly remarried. Best of luck to you. Hope you find a good one like I did.
2006-08-25 04:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. I've known plenty of people in relationships like that, both the step dad role and the step kid role. I don't know why a man involve himself in someone else's problems. It is a constant struggle. Not worth it.
2006-08-25 04:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by 45Fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, your not getting married to the women, having a date might actually help the lady relax and have a good time, raising three kids by yourself is very hard
2006-08-25 04:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would as long as you had a good personality and i couold trust the woman then no such thing as damaged goods.
2006-08-25 04:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a woman with two kids, working great for me.
2006-08-25 04:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a 17 year old, only if the kids werent brats.LOL.
2006-08-25 04:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋