I've been dating a guy for a while who I was really into and who seemed really into me. Then just the other day he stopped calling and stopped answerin my calls for no apparant reason. The night before he seemed perfectly ok and was making plans for a few weeks ahead. A few days later I left a message just asking him to let me know what was going on he still never replied. I don't get it. Why didn't he just tell me?
2006-08-25 04:36:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of two things. One is that he lost interest and is too much of a coward to tell you. Or two, something much more is going on. Maybe he's developing stronger feelings for you than he's comfortable with and he's scared. He may just need time to sort through everything. Either way, he's going about it the cowardly way. But, in my opinion, it sounds like he's not interested anymore and doesn't want to hurt you (even though not knowing is worse than being told straight out). Give him a few more days and see if he comes around. In those few days, don't call him. Give the space he apparently wants. If he calls, that's a great sign, but if he doesn't, you have your answer. Good luck and sorry you have to go through this.
2006-08-25 04:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because deep down all guys are childish and immature and really big sissys. They always take the easy way out. They will never give you an explanation and they hate confrontation. They will avoid "talking" things out by all means possible. That is why girls always are the ones calling them, looking for an explanation. And it doesn't make us crazy to want one, we deserve it. Forget about him bc he's over you and he's not a real man.
2006-08-25 04:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys never want to put themselves in a situation where a girl can cry. And the jerks do what he did. You must have missed some signs that he really wasn't that into you. Take this as a learning experience and move on. He obviously wasn't worth your time.
2006-08-25 04:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm sorry that the guy as not called you...that just shows the guy is not very mature (yet); how old is he?
Being a guy I'll try to explain (one possible reason)...
Guy meets girl, guy likes girl....guy meets another girl, thinks "well I'm still technically single!", flirts with new girl...next day guy thinks "but I still like first girl what do I do??"....Guy continues with new girl but does not want to dump other girl in case new girl does not work out....you following??
I know it is a bit s***, but guys will try it with as many girls as possible (keeping their options open) until they really click with one girl...which takes time!
Hope things work out...and if he does not call soon he's not worth it!
2006-08-25 04:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Roger C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl tell me more. i just hate it...
they don't have the backbone to do that.
also, other guys are just afraid of getting rejected so instead of asking you, they'll just fade away baby! it's for the girls to find out after sometime when he's not calling... there we have our answer... it's better when said, even if it hurts more than waiting for nothing. it's a waste of time.
2006-08-25 04:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by поцелуй 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex used to behave like this till i behave like a mad woman and keep calling him till his mobile wanna to explode...He finally called to meet me..and he finally told me he made a gal pregnant...Which is his ex gf..
Do i buy that reason,well i do actually but i caught him holding another gal hand on the streets 6 months later which his 'wife' should be pregnant but that gal is not..So do you know what the moral of my true story?Whatever the reason they could give..just don't believe..it's all lies and ways to dump you..
If a guy refuse to reply or answer your call meaning it's time to move on...Don't be like me, acting like a desperate /fool in front of them..as if we gals can't live without them.. damn...
2006-08-25 04:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a coward and is probably afraid if he told you straight up you'd get emotional or yell at him, which would be unpleasant for him. Obviously he is immature and not worth your time.
2006-08-25 04:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When push comes to shove, men are the biggest sissies out there. You practically have to confront them so that they'll break up with you...Men can suck like that.
2006-08-25 04:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not dating anymore, but lord I remember those days. Oh for one guy whose got the balls to simply be honest--I'm not into this. That I can respect.
2006-08-25 04:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea that ain't cool...side not though, why do girls not tell you they don't want to go out? I mean just say no, we will move on...instead of wasting money on a person who isn't going to go anywhere with us.
2006-08-25 04:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋