have sex with me im only thirteen and i dont want to have it
he isnt even my bf he just does
i always said to him that i would do n ethin 4 him to keep him happy cuz hes my ex
but now he wants to have sex wit me
how do i tell no witout makin so harsh
2006-08-25 04:34:04 · 26 answers · asked by I ♥ Colombianos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him no. a true friend will respect your decision. and besides you are really young and you dont need sex right now right.
2006-08-25 04:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if hes 16 or older you should'nt be hangin out with him.You have only one virginity but you will have all the time in the world to have sex with him.If he really even cared anything about you,you would'nt be his ex.So obviously hes not even worth your time.You should really try to stay away from this person.Why not try to make some new friends or get in some church youth group or something.
2006-08-25 04:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say No!!!!!! You a child. and I mean that in the most repectful way. Wait till you married. Or atleast old enough to deal with the emotional rollercoaster that having sex will put you through. Dont do it. Plain and simple. Enjoy your youth. Dont tarnish it with a superficial act like sex. Get involved in a youth group at church. And pray that God will give you the strength to sustain.
2006-08-25 04:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by scott l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety just tell him, "Your Body is a Temple" U can go get it with someone else. Okay~ U do not owe him anything. and once a ex stays a ex~ Do not double back~ Tell him to take some condoms and go get him someone willing. Do not trip off him and do not give into the hype~ Stay FOCUSED~ Just say NO~
2006-08-25 04:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that it's not that you don't like him and that you guys don't get along great or that you don't find him attractive, because you do. But you're not ready, (btw - good for you!) and that when the time is right you want it to be with someone you love, who loves you back. He'll probably say something hurtful so be prepared. Men don't like to be turned down, it hurts their pride.
2006-08-25 04:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No means no..just flat out and tell him ...and if he takes it the wrong way ohhh welll.13 is not the age to be havin sex..But u are doing the right thing by waiting
2006-08-25 04:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by sugarbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 13 too and just tell him that ur not ready and its inappropriate for a 13 year old to have sex!!
2006-08-25 04:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mike R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a big deal....it changes everything once you do it....your emotional state, mental state, physical....you both should be living your childhood coz once it's gone you cannot relive it....so say no and just be a happy healthy 13 year old......remember this age only comes once.....good luck and god bless
2006-08-25 04:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before each little thing, examine your spelling. 2d of all, i'd not. in case you enable him kiss you, your giving him a contact, and he might want to imagine it really is severe. Your stunning pal confessed like to you, and it really is basically frustrating. you ought to basically stay pals, because you're breaking the regulations in case you kiss him because...he will imagine that you want him and ask you out and then you'd be in a higher mess. stay faraway from him if he loves you...if he fairly loves you, he will comprehend.
2016-11-27 20:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a kiss or hug and tell him you adore him but you like the friendship you share and dont think sex would help.
2006-08-25 04:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋