Me & my friends are going camping next week, My girfriend & a few of her friends are meeting up with us (neither parents know we are all going). We have never spent this sort of time with eachother or ever camped out before...is there any do's or donts i should know about?
Help!
2006-08-25 04:31:59 · 52 answers · asked by robert f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever you do, don't forget the condoms!
Mosquito repellant is also usually a good idea (pump spray or lotion).
2006-08-25 04:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends how close you two are. If you're feeling nervous about sex, then she probably is too. I know it can be embarassing, but it would be really nice from a girl's perspective to be asked what she would like to do. She might be anticipating something happening, or she might be feeling really pressured to do something she's not yet ready to do yet. (That is, if this is the first time you've had the chance to even consider it a possibility). Whatever you decide to do, try not to make the whole trip about sex, unless she expresses that's what she wants. Otherwise, why not try going on a really nice walk together, and talk about what's important to you now? It's nice for a girl to know that she's worthy of talking with.
Don't put yourself under pressure to perform. Just relax, pay attention to her, help out with cooking and cleaning camp, plan some fun stuff to do, and the rest will work itself out. Just be yourself. It's why she's with you in the first place.
Oh, and don't listen to any advice from guy friends. They don't really know how women tick! It's much more fun to find out for yourself. Plus, girls know when you're faking it.
Have fun!!! Hope you don't get found out. (Have a great backup cover story). If you do, take the fall. If she sees you take the heat, she'll be really greatful. Even if it doesn't work, she'll appreciate that you tried to stick up for her.
Pack condoms in assorted colours and flavours just in case you two do decide to have some fun. And please remember to use them. You can get pregnant the first time, just as easily as any other time. Better to be safe than a Daddy too early!!!!
2006-08-25 04:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by AussieGrrrl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do Tell your parents you going camping! First and for most~ Little teenagers get snatched and you really have to cover the basis and make sure folks know where your whereabouts are~ Do not go with any strangers- Do the buddy system- Do not separate- And if you do separate stay at the TREE~ U all really need to inform the parents. Then have your fun it will be no fun to either parent if something weird was to kick off~ Always let someone know where you are going and with whom~ SAFETY FIRST~
2006-08-25 04:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most important thing is to remember to take condoms just incase. When you are there you will feel different and feel daring to try new tihngs. It will be good for you both ot get some real time on your own. Use it to find out new things about each other and avoid drink as much as you can. But if you decide you want to make love then be careful, use protection and look after her.
Have a good time
2006-08-25 04:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by andrew_glasgow_male2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 15 your parents are giving you trust , don't betray that trust .
meeting up and whatever is mischief that probably will be found out but your parents probably did the same when they were younger and will forgive .
But if its found out because your 15 year old girlfriends dad comes knocking on your parents door because she is pregnant
you will regret it for the rest of your life .
Wait until your both 16 at least then the law is on your side .
2006-08-25 04:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are actually many does and donts in your situation. First of all dont try anything with her. Abstinance is the key. You dont wanna end up being a father at age 15. Also dont be pressured into doing anything you dont feel comfortable doing. And last but not leaste dont pressure anyone else into anything that they dont wanna do. Have a good time without loosing your virginity.
2006-08-25 04:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
breath yes 1 2 3 now relax wit yer only 15 just wait it will be fine as long as you wait for the right time you know what i mean yer not ready cant beleive your even to look for an excuse at your age why o why r you thinking about it the tent is supposed to *** down when your finished camping!
2006-08-25 04:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by niz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be calm and try to explore as much as possible and be protected in whatever you do. Make sure you bring along some protection just in case anything happens (condoms) and dont think too much about sex. Try to have a greattime with her and show her that you care. Good luck and have a fun trip.
2006-08-25 04:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself!!!!!!!! Let her see you for the real you. Trust me, if yall aren't right for each other now is the time to find out. Wait to kiss her until she looks at you close for at least 30 seconds. Don't feel on her to make her think that you are going to ask her to do something she doesn't want to and just relax! Most stupid things said or done is because you are to nervous to just be cool.
2006-08-25 04:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by tab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never spent alot of time together be aware that you may argue as you will be getting used to each others habbits etc, make sure your tent is secure if you are going to have sex use protection.
2006-08-25 07:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are camping with her doesn't mean you have to have sex. My simbling have gone on co-ed trips to the beach and such in groups and friends, and they dont ever have problems with that. Just go with the flow, and don't encourage bad decisions. Just remember there are consquences of your actions.
2006-08-25 04:44:59 · answer #11 · answered by Emmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋