What did you learn about opposite sex after the last break up in your love relationship?

Question

If you are male, then what are your opinion about females after your last break up with someone you truely loved?... same for females

Answer 1

I THINK IT WOULD BE IGNORANT AND SELF DEFEATING TO LET THAT ONE PERSON REPRESENT THEIR ENTIRE SEX.

YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE NOT TO BECOME A PROFESSIONAL VICTIM.

GET BACK AT THEM BY IMPROVING YOUR LIFE WITHOUT THEM.

I LEARNED THE PERCEPTION DOES NOT EQUAL INTENT. YOU HAVE TO HAVE EMPATHY.

I LEARNED THAT UNFINISHED BUSINESS (EX'S) AND BAGGAGE CONTAMINATES FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS.

I LEARNED THAT ACCEPTANCE SHOULD BE UNCONDITIONAL.

I LEARNED THAT JUST BECAUSE YOU LOVE SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T MEAN THEY OWE YOU ANYTHING. GIVE JESUS HIS CROSS BACK.

I LEARNED THAT YOU HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN FEELINGS.

I LEARNED THAT TO MOVE ON AND GET OVER THINGS, YOU HAVE TO LOOK FOR THE WISDOM AND OPPORTUNITY HIDDEN UNDER THE PAIN. ONCE YOU GET PAST THE EMOTION, YOU CAN CLEARLY SEE THE OPPORTUNITY.

I LEARNED THAT 'BEING DEPRESSED' IS ANOTHER WAY OF SAYING "BEING TOO SELF-ABSORBED".

I LEARNED THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE TO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOURSELF.

I LEARNED THAT IT'S NOT ABOUT HAVING WHAT YOU WANT, BUT RATHER WANTING WHAT YOU HAVE.

Answer 2

My last break up, with someone I truely loved, taught me that if he loved me as much as he said he did, nothing should have been able to get in his way of being with me,and when he told me "I love you" I should of been on gaurd. A hard lesson, but if he is really into you, he would be there instead of leaving you alone so much.

Answer 3

That you should really take you time, get to know each other and be careful when choose a mate, like the saying goes you never know a person until you've been with them or lived with them. Also remember people will do the right thing until they get you then they change on you.

Answer 4

I found out that guys can really love so deeply that they would put up with anything and would do anything for the women they love. All the other guys before never showed me how to be loved, but even the greatest love has it's differences and doesn't work out.

Answer 5

well its a bad things that you break up with whom loved you ..

UNFAIR.....


its unfair that ....
that i love you so madly ,
while you don`t know....
and to missed you so much,,,
while you didn`t feel that ...
and to tell all the world about you ,,
while you didn`t hear that ....
and to write all my poems to you ,,,
while you didn`t read them ....
and to be so jealous about you ,,,
while you didn`t realize that ....
and to wait you all the time,,,
while you didn`t come yet to me....
yes ,,,
unfair that what you do...

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Answer 6

i learned that you should never go back out with somebody after they dumped you

Answer 7

I learnt that men can be old before their time.

Answer 8

I learnt older is not always wiser.

Answer 9

da only answer i got was>>
be wid da 1 who can take a stand for u in her house..n leave da world for u....
if u can take dat xtra step for u///leave da world for her....but if she cant....den she does not loves u...as u do...

Answer 10

That you can't trust a man!!! They all stick together too!