ive told my ex- b/f its over.... you know how they say first time shame on you second time shame on me?...well i gave him a second chance after he hit me the first time and it happened again so i ended it....(been through enough of that in my life and i dont need it) its been about 6 weeks now and ive even started dating someone else (casually not serious).....i've let my ex know this and made it perfectly clear that we will not have another relationship of that caliber but he still keeps calling me and telling me he'll change and be a man and wants me back...i still firmly say no....so now my thing is this....i said that we could still be friends but if i have to put up with this crap everyday i'd just as soon not talk to him at all....what can i do to make it clear to him that i dont want to be with him?
2006-08-25 03:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by cookiesmom 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold the phone! He hit you twice and you said you'd still be his friend? NO! You should not have a relationship of any caliber with this guy. And you shouldn't have told him you were dating someone else. Big mistake. You could putting yourself and your new man in physical danger. Do yourself a favor; block his #s (if you have a cell and can't or don't want to change the #, then go on-line to view your account and see if you have the option there) and if he shows up at your home or work (you should really alert security or a manager at your place of work of the situation and ask that he not be allowed on the premises if he has no business there) it's time for a restraining order. You are a strong woman and you do not have to put up with this crap! Stop talking to him. If you keep talking to him he knows he's sucking you back in.
2006-08-25 03:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Cassiopeia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most effective way to let someone know that you have no desire to associate with them in ANY relationship, is to express yourself CLEARLY. Tell them that this is your last communication with them, then "burn the bridge!!!!!." Silence is also an effective weapon, "The Art of War." Peace
2006-08-25 06:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and stop taking his calls. Don't even acknowledge him. If that doesn't work, get a restraining order. Sounds like this guy has stalker potential.
2006-08-25 03:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by buttafli 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say it's over and mean it stop talking to him when he calls change your number if you have to just forget him
2006-08-25 03:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋