i think i need to brake up with my boy friend because he never calls me i always call him and then a couple minutes later he says he's gotta go! help me! what should i do?
2006-08-25 03:39:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him he has already left you he just hasn't told you
2006-08-25 03:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer j 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call you and you just call him, then you should tell him that he needs to start calling you sometimes because to you it seems like he don't love you and everytime you call him he say he gotta go. Maybe he have some other trick on the side. If you tell him to start calling and he don't, then just forget about him because eventually he have somebody else. You can find a better guy then that, find someone that really do loves you and also call you instead you calling him. Just call him and tell him that you think yall relationship isn't workin out, and tell him that you think yall should break up.
2006-08-25 10:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of reason is it to break up with a guy because he's busy?? Look, if he's really always leaving you on the phone because he doesn't want to talk to you, he'd have looked at the caller ID in the first place and not picked up. That's the smartest thing to do and MY preferred method of ignoring people. And maybe you call him too much... maybe he needs some space!! Yes, he is your boyfriend, but how much of his life do you really want to take up?? Maybe he feels uncomfortable with you sneaking up on him all the time. Instead of calling him all the time, make plans to meet up like once a week or maybe twice. Then he's actually READY to talk to you and spend time with you and you won't have to interrupt his apparently very busy schedule. But if you really like him, don't break up just because he wants some space. Good luck!!
2006-08-25 10:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. a friend in general wouldn't act that way, so it probably doesn't matter that he's your "boy" friend.
When someone doesn't show any interest in you or can't find the time for you, it might be a good idea to find someone more compatible. I'd make sure you build a good case and ask him the reason for his actions along with why he can't find time for you.
Plenty of fish in the sea and it sounds like you can attract another guy based on your conversation skills.
Fix what is broken....by brakin!
Best of luck!
2006-08-25 10:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is NOT "Your boyfriend". Don't you get it? If a guy wants to be your boyfriend, he will make an effort. If he's not calling you, don't call him. You make yourself look like a desperate stalking idiot.
This may sound harsh to some, but it's reality. Value yourself and others will too. Stop giving guys the green light to play you!
2006-08-25 10:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring hi 2 a nice place then tell him we need 2 brake up then say sorry bye and walk out
2006-08-25 10:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it should be time to brake up wit him cuz it sounds that he has lost interest in u an when he dosent wanna talk that means he is tryin to ignore u or hes talkin to somebody elese if u no wat i mean u both prolly want the same thing but not to hurt each other but he'll get over it an move on its not the first
2006-08-25 10:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by fat_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the reason he never calls you is because hes toobusy, in bed with a hot cute stud doing the big bang!! yeah you sould dump him, hes busy with a hot cute stud hons, your just inn the way!!hithe highway!!
2006-08-25 10:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good time to dump him. If he isn't making much effort on the relationship, why should you?
2006-08-25 10:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already trying to break up with you, but he hasn't the nerve to tell you. Take the hint and move on.
2006-08-25 10:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK... read the book "He's Just Not That Into You". Yeah breakup with him, he is not into a relationship now anyway.
2006-08-25 10:43:55 · answer #11 · answered by Maria b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋