i am 28 yrs married now a days i want to spand night with another man for change what to do?

Answer 1

Are you for real???
I just had a read of your previous question, in which you said you were an Aquarius, and want to know if you can have a baby boy!…

Which part of your marriage vows to you think might suggest that spending the night with another man, just might not be the right thing to do???

How about you go and ask your husband if he would mind you sleeping with another man… see what he thinks!!!
Or perhaps you should ask your daughter what she thinks.

You have asked what you should do… Well, may I suggest that you should continue to be faithful to your husband. Being as though you are into the ‘stars’ thing, may I suggest that that is what an Aquarius would do!!!

Perhaps as an alternative to sleeping with another man, you could imagine your husband is another man, and make love to him in a whole new way. Or just make believe the next time you make love to your husband, that it is your first time!!!

Put some spice back into your marriage… Don’t destroy it!!!

Answer 2

Well I think that it's normal to fantasize about being with other people. Especially when you've been with the same person for so long. You start to crave variety. But since you are married, it is not an option to just go out and do whatever you want. You married this man because you love him, and by staying married, I assume you still do. So you have to do right by him, and leave the other thoughts to your fantasies. You could try talking to him, and letting him know that you are in need of something a little different. A huge plus of being married is that your partner will probably be more than happy to partake in something different, sexually, to make you happy. Try a little role playing; perhaps you're an exotic dancer and he's a lonely business man. Or maybe you could try a little domination. Nothing too freaky or he may wig out! But a little leather, a mask, some scarves for tying, could be fun! Doing these kinds of things makes you feel like a different person, and could be just the variety you need. Try reversing the roles too. He could be a sexy construction worker, and you the gal at the coffee shop. Go for a quickie while the boss ain't looking!! Ha ha! Hope you give these a try, and have fun. Just remember, you got married for a reason, and you wouldn't want to devastate your husband by going elsewhere for entertainment. Good Luck!!

Answer 3

im not married but i tried playing away once. Will NEVER do it again as I discovered if i do it, it means i've given up on my partner. It was a strong r'ship but already falling apart when this happened, which was effectively the only reason why i let myself go. Actually, i always stuck to fidelity, that's just how i am, but twas my partner who encouraged me to try with another man, "for experience". It only made things worse and ended in a 6-month continual agony coz of course he took it not the way he'd said he would, and i finally left him anyways.

My point is - first make up yr mind whether you do want your husband or not and then act accordingly, coz once you step over the line it can never be repaired anymore.
You can glue it up but the cracks will remain visible forever
Even if yr hubby never knows, YOU will never forget

Answer 4

You don't love your husband anymore? cheating is usually a prelude to the END of a marriage, is it worth it to you to throw it all away? If you have no feelings for your husband anymore it would be better to divorce than cheat, then you will be free to fornicate all you want, of course that too has it's consequences.Does your husband still love you? are you just bored with the routine?? You need to fully look at it from all sides before you make any choices. Someitmes it can all be rekindeled if you are both willing to work on it. This is the choice I would make. 28 yrs is a lot to throw away.

Answer 5

I can see where your coming from, being married for so many years to the same man, nice for a change but seriously, think about it, you want to let all those years go to waste?
Well you either stay with your man and be FAITHFUL or, get a divorse and find another guy, don't cheat, thats not fair.

Answer 6

I was married to a women, my first wife, for 37 years. I found many years later that she had seven affairs back when we were your age.

It like to kill me. It was with out a doubt the most painful thing I have ever gone through. Far worse than loosing my own parents.
It took working with a counseler to get me though it.

If you care nothing for your husband and want to get back at him for something, this would be the way to do it. I have no idea how your husband feels about you but good chance he loves and trusts you. Only reason not would be he has his own thing going.

Is having that affair, maybe for even one night, worth throwing your husband away? If, and when he finds out, you will have no more credibility with him. He will never ever trust you again.

DON'T DO THIS...unless your ready to move out.

Answer 7

stop being a silly mare and fix up, your man probably wants to spend a night with another woman love, HOWEVER if you are going to do it... do it in another country so its not realllly cheating.Then come back here and tell everyone on Trisha how you listened to the advice of someone online and how you got pregnant with Pablo the bartenders child and Have NO husband. it Will be good times

Answer 8

Firstly . . . why did you get married? Secondly infidelity is definitely NOT the answer. If you want to sleep with another simply get a divorce, fooling around is how things get MESSY!! At the end of the day you have ask yourself this question "Would it really be worth it?"

Answer 9

Depends on why you want to do it, but if it is just for a change then try this:

Tell your hubby to book you into a hotel, and tell him to dress up in a nice suit (write all this down for him by the way and dont discuss it) and you walk into the hotel in a long coat with nothing but nice things underneath it and meet him at the bar, where you will either proceed to buy him a drink and pick him up promising sexual favours or vice versa which ever you prefer!

Remember to give yourself different names and identities!

In fact I think I will give this game a wee shot myself! hehehe

Answer 10

Sounds like you have a big problem. At the best...........get a divorce and don't get married, now or again until you get this out of your system. Some women just can't be happy with one man. Be careful, or you could 'get something', from one or more men you sleep with. Yuk!