but he kissed her when we first started going out what do i do to get him to stop talking to her? they only dated a few months but were friends before that. i dont mind him talking to his other x's just her. he is not a guy who likes to talk bout his feelings i just dont know which way to turn i dont want to lose him but i dont wanna feel like this.
2006-08-25 03:28:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it was nothing, and he kust liked talking to her, he wouldn't have to lie about it. It sounds like he may still have feelings for her.
You should tell him straight up not to talk to her..
And tell him if he does, you're gone.
If he cares about you, he'll leave that girl alone, and if he doesn't..
you can do way better, I'm sure
2006-08-25 03:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okayyy. why do you want her to end? it sounds like you sense kinda insecure about her being which includes her ex. i say you tell her, "it makes me uncomfortable that you search for suggestion from with him, so are you able to note of how i'm feeling and turn it down slightly?" she cant basically end talking to him thoroughly you comprehend that? she cant reduce him out of her existence forver, because at one factor he became a large element of her existence she cant leave like that... I easily have an same problem, this guy i'm sorta seeing informed me that per chance it would want to be more desirable helpful if i ended talking to my ex, reason he doesnt imagine i'm over him??? besides thats no longer the problem, i basically didnt want to diminish him out of my existence, reason i did love him and it sort of feels ridiculous to allow him bypass.
2016-11-27 20:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the only way that you can handle it is by making it fair, and if it continues you will simply have to do the same with another guy.
Try that one on for size.Good Luck sis.
2006-08-25 03:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by chicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't really matter if he likes to talk or not...u need to TELL him how this is bothering u...in the end u'll get hurt and he'll leave u for her...do u wanna deal with that pain?....leave him...if he comes back then he's urs...but mostly likely he'll go to her and they'll hook up....u dont need this...tell urself one thing...y would u want to be with someone that doesnt WANT u?...
2006-08-25 03:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will only treat you how you ALLOW them to treat you.
If you allow him to treat you bad, then you deserve it.
You can't change actions, only circumstances. Remember that.
Remove the relationship and the circumstance doesn't exsist.
2006-08-25 03:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
you can probably ask him to stop
but if he doesnt then he must not like you
or you can threaten to not go out with him
2006-08-25 03:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only way you can that's if you dump him boys will be boys and they will lie so he's still messing with her oh yeah
2006-08-25 03:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure that he isnt cheating on you with her.
2006-08-25 03:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't trust her.
2006-08-25 03:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋