-i met him 2 days a go. and we hang out all day yesterday. i was have n so much fun. then we ran in to some people we both knew and he said he had to tell me something. HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!but we r really good together. he said he was go n to break up w/ her.(they have been toget her 4 2 years)
2006-08-25 03:27:58 · 26 answers · asked by numblock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you understand that he is cheating on his girlfriend, and that if you were his girlfriend, he would be cheating on you?
Doesn’t the fact that he never told you he had a girlfriend until you met up with some mutual friends, suggest that the only reason he told you, was because he was afraid someone else would tell you?
How do you think his girlfriend would feel if she found out that he was hanging around with another girl all day? How would you feel, if you were his girlfriend???
By not telling you straight away that he has a girlfriend, he was proving that he can’t be trusted.
Do not get involved with him!!!
2006-08-25 04:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find myself wondering if he would have told you about his girlfriend if you hadn't run into those people you both knew. He hasn't been honest with you already and you've only known him for 2 days.
If he has been with this other girl for 2 years that's a long term relationship. He is obviously attracted to you but 2 years is a long time and he may not be able to let go of the other girl so easily.
It's never good to be the "rebound" person. If I were you I would tell him that you don't want to see him until he breaks up with his girlfriend and is alone for awhile to make sure he is over that relationship. And even then it would be hard to trust a guy who was cheating on his girlfriend when he met you. What makes you think he won't cheat on you once you are his girlfriend?
2006-08-25 03:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by sebsilversmith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see him. He only told you that he has a girlfriend because you ran into people otherwise you wouldn't have known. Eventually after spending more time with him you would have found out and gotten hurt. Secondly you would like to have I'm sure what we all want..... Someone who loves, cares for us and most importantly someone we TRUST! What are the odds that he is going to suddenly leave his girlfriend of 2 years for someone he has known for 2 days? And think about this, after all of that time together he doesn't have enough respect to break up with her before he starts hanging out with other girls? Think about how she feels. And say you two did become more..... do you really think he wouldn't do the same to you? No you need to step away, realize that he's a cheater, and find a real guy.... not a uncaring player.
2006-08-25 03:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what he says, he is going to communicate with her in some form or fashion. If he is breaking up with her for no reason, that will not be her last time speaking to him. You have to weigh it out 2 years compaired to 2 days. They have more memories and foundation. The only way I can tell you that it may be official is if those two weren't getting along at all. Then he fed up and want something new. Another thing to keep in mind If he cheated on her he'll cheat on you!!
2006-08-25 03:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by caress_89 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to ditch a guy who's unfaithful. Is there any guarantee that he's going to break up with that other girl? Of course, do it the polite way and be subtle. In the end, it's up to you.
[/being an agony aunt] Disclaimer: This is just my opinion.
2006-08-25 03:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has a girlfriend yet says hes breaking up with her, then you should really watch out because he may be lieing..Alot of married men do that..they say they are divorcing their wives and it never happnes..Watch life time..Anyways and if he really does break up with his girlfriend then you should stay away for a while because hes just using you..
2006-08-25 03:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him or give him your heart until he is through with his current girlfriend. You don't want problems from this girl and he is the one being dishonest because he should have told you he had a girlfriend before he spent a whole day with you.
2006-08-25 03:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen and listen closely...you just met him and he's already lied to you...so what makes you think what he's doing to his girlfriend he won't do to you..WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE..i would of dumped him when he told me he had a girlfriend..find out who his girlfriend is and tell her all about you and him and see if you don't get smacked in the face..don't be a gluttin for punishment...yeah yeah i've heard the story about oh i'm going to leave her.....set his *** up and have her meet you and him somewhere...i don't even wish you luck because your in the wrong for even wanting to be with him knowing he has a girlfriend
2006-08-25 03:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by twinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off for a little bit...you don't want to be in the middle of that. See if he's serious about breaking up with her before you make any decisions.
2006-08-25 03:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by angie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell to bugger off. If he really likes you nad wants to be with you he'll let you know.
You're obviously looking for a man to commit to a realtionship. so don;t waste your time on this guy, find a decent guy who's looking for the same thing.
2006-08-25 03:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Nestor Q 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋