Why do males cheat??

Question

The more you want to believe him, you can't because of all the lies!!! His ex won't leave us alone. I need your help!!!!

Answer 1

If his ex don't leave you both alone and he's meeting her behind your back or what..then It's time to leave them alone..
Tell your man..Go and settle your old problem before you come and look for me..If he can't even handle a woman, how do you expect to hand over your future in this kind of man?
If he keep on saying to give him time..Never give it to him..He will drag and drag..You must show him some discipline..Force him to settle with that gal..as some guys are real lazy..If he refuse to do anythg then leave this guy..I bet you also don't want a gal 24 hours giving you both problems and causing arguements right? It's unhealthy for a relationship with a third party that refuse to go..Remeber don't tell him you will wait for him to settle..Give him 1 week time..If one week and the problem still persist, you gonna leave him..

Answer 2

The truth is there are so many reasons why men AND WOMEN cheat. It is a complicated social and relationship problem that does not have a simple answer that can be written in a few paragraphs on Y!A. Sure you are going to get a lot of people who will tell you it is because men and pigs or men are scum, but I believe it is too easy to castigate an entire gender for the sins of a few.

My advice, for whatever it is worth, is to focus on those things that you can control and the mechanism for coping with the things you can't control. If we start from the basic premise that, for whatever reason, some people either cannot or will not remain faithful no matter how much we wish they would be, your real challenge is not to allow yourself to become jaded. A jaded person, in this context, will tend to blame the sins of the past guy on the next guy, thereby making it that much harder for new relationships to thrive.

In any relationship that involves people, which is to say all of them, there is risk. If you want to find happiness, you need to be willing to risk the possibility of heartbreak and disappointment. Sadly, it is the only way.

Answer 3

At least I have the guts to say I cheated. Yes I admit it. I cheated because of the BS I went through in my relationship. I went and got drunk and fooled around about four times. But truthfully if I found someone that I could love and trust.I wouldn't be looking around. So why does men cheat. Because they are not content with what they have. I believe if a relationship is to be successful both people need to respect and love each other. If you don't have the formula and chemistry in your relationship. It will eventually end.

Answer 4

Hmmmmm, why do "males" cheat is the question, but there's a women involved here too (ex). Why not ask, "Why do females cheat"?

Seriously, though. Stop lumping all males together - that is just serving your need to excuse his behavior as "typical male" when it's actually HIM. That's a scarier proposition, but much more accurate. Besides, you don't even say if he has cheated. Are you just worried he will? TALK TO HIM.

Answer 5

Males / Females if your a lying cheat then you will always be a liar and a cheat.

The only consolation is you reap what you sow.

Get out now and call it experience.

Answer 6

Men cheat just as much as women do. So before you blame and miscategorize an entire gender, and 50% of the world, think about what you're saying.

I've never cheated in my life.

Answer 7

find someone else who makes you safe and comfort.
but if you really like him, confront him, and tell him what your feelings about the lies, cheating, and his ex
if he understand and do what makes you don't have this kind of feelings so stick with him
but if he doesn't care about your feelings, honey are you sure want to spent time with this kind of men. a men that make you un safe and gave u a headache. just find someone else who fit's with you. there still many men who will respect you, honey
but i suggest you talk to him, and ask him to take action. but honey, you also have to understand him and what he want, as long you don't get bother with what he wants.
and for the ex, secure them. honey you are in relationship whit him not them. just be brave and confront with the ex.

good luck with your relationship with him

Answer 8

Instincts that can't easily be controlled. Biology vs society. We want to spread our seeds, you know, ensure that we have many progeny from many different partners. But society tells us we shouldn't. So it is by sheer will power that many men don't cheat. The rest are just acting like monkeys.

Answer 9

Women are just too beautiful . You know how you get bored of a video game after a while??? lol well its the same thing. Im dead serious too. Except that some men are responsible and grown up enough to value the feelings of their girls.

Answer 10

i can ask the same question about females cheating. tell him that you dont want him to have contact with his ex or you will leave him for his cheating.