Me and my man dont talk much about our personal life because its too much drama and we dont txt or call each other often not like what other couples do. Thats why some people we know often ask if we really are couples. But we admitted to each other that we like each others company and we dont like to think about us braking up..
2006-08-25 03:16:50 · 27 answers · asked by rakista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What r u FCUK BUDDIES
2006-08-25 03:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relationship is different just because you don't do what other couples do doesnt mean your not a couple. The main thing is if your comfortable with the way your relationship is, if the asnwer is yes then you dont need to worry about what others think, as long as your happy and your not bothered, then yes you are a couple. To answer your question only you know if the relationship is serious, i mean do you guys have an agreement are you just seeing each other casually or is it more than that?But if its really bothering you then you should speak to him only he will be able to tell you what sort of commitment he thinks you both have, do not let other people decide taht for you. good luck
2006-08-25 10:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your relationship doesnt fall within the context of other people's expectations of what a relationship is does not mean that it isn't any less of committment or any less real. Don't worry about what other people think, as long as both of you are happy with your situation...Just because you guys aren't up each other's asses doesnt mean that neither of you dont care as much as other couples who are around each other all of the time. I think it sounds like a pretty good situation if you ask me because you guys arent too wrapped up in each other to have the stupid drama that most people find themselves in...you enjoy each others company and care about each and thats great and I wish nothing but the best of luck to the both of you:)
2006-08-25 10:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you both decide to get a little more personal and accept the drama and move on with a real relationship then yes you will have a serious relationship. If you can't then it won't work. You can only ignore something for so long before you crack.
2006-08-25 10:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as its working for you the way it is, if it aint broke, dont try to fix it. Sometimes what works for other relatioships isnt best for yours. If you like it, leave it be and just be happy. I cant help but think, by your question, maybe you would like just a little bit more contact and communication. well, theres 2 ways, either tell him that, or just start communicationg more on your end and maybe he'll catch on and reciptocate. Though, if he doesnt, either, he likes the old way, or theres something hes hiding. Your relationship you have to figure out the whole works. Hope i could shed some light though
2006-08-25 10:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by lasttruediva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to evaluate that relationship. You guys spend very little time together. If you are in a relationship with someone the whole point is to share your lives together and from what you have said you and your boyfriend are not sharing your lives together. You need to talk to him about this. Is this the type of relationship you want? If the answer is no you need to end this. A relationship should be enriching to your life and it does not sound like you are getting what you want from this relationship.
2006-08-25 10:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is. I had one of those relationships for 10 years and it was very happy and worked for both of us. People were always wondering if we were a couple or not.
The only time it becomes a problem is when one person is not getting what they want and they go on as usual to save losing them or being alone. If you are both being honest with what you want and you are both happy with the arrangement, good on you for not being part of the norm and doing things your way.
2006-08-25 10:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say some people often ask if you are really a couple, that is their perception. The fact that you are asking this question makes me think you have some doubts yourself. Only you and he know what goes on between you when you do meet up. If you are concerned, maybe you need to re-evalute where your at.
2006-08-25 10:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by A G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both had already made it clear that you both are committed to each other then its a relationship..Your kind of relationship is what people always said: Companionship
And this is the most stable kind of relationship as there's no suspicious, over-sensitive or don't trust involved..
2006-08-25 10:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur relationship with ur man is not a serious one you both are not commited to one another
if u and ur man dont have communication how are u going to build a health relationship u dont have a relationship with him and not a serious one either
u may like eachother but only as friends or sex but serious committed realtionship nah
2006-08-25 10:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a relationship of convenience
2006-08-25 10:19:32 · answer #11 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋