This very shy girl just rejected me...she doesn't want to go out with me. Is there a possiblility that she'll change her mind?
What's the best way to get her to change her mind?
What's the best thing to do? (I am ready to wait and do anything...but not abandon, she's the best thing that ever happened to me)
2006-08-25 03:08:31 · 11 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why she rejected me..she may be "not interested" or she just may be shy...giving her flowers would be a bad idea...that would bug her more
2006-08-25 03:12:59 · update #1
Send flowers to her job with a note that says "This is my last attempt... just dinner?" or something like that.
You shoudl go after what you want, but if she seems certain about her rejection, then you shouldn't force yourself on her. There will be another woman perfect for you.
2006-08-25 03:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by barelyliterate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There aint no best way.. cuz there're many answer.
However.. I'd like to suggest that You take things at a time.
Get to know her better.. her preference? Be friends and take things from there.
Plus, Try not to have an intention behind all your actions. Women can tell.. there's somethin abt their six sense... heex.
Be nice to her just because you want to... not because you wan to get her out. It doesnt mean that once she rejects you and that's the end, right?
Put it this way, she's just shy. Like what You've mentioned, she's a very shy lady... tendency is that she's uncomfortable with you yet... take your time. Things get better once she's more familiar with you. All the best.
cheers,
rae.
2006-08-25 03:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rae T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you are very young. I will share a secret that most people do not learn until they are about 30. You will most likely reject it. This girl will reject you again because you are acting desperate and women find it unattractive. You can get her if you do as I say. You must find a girl who is prettier than her and kiss this girl in front of her. When she sees a girl prettier than herself in your arms she will fall instantly and madly in love with you. You must have gut and courage to do this. I would also be willing to bet that once this girl wants you somehow she will not appear as desirable to you as she did when she rejected you. It is all psychology. Study up on female/male psychology. She may be shy, but even shy girls don't want desperate guys. Stop chasing her. People are most attracted to people who are very confident and self-assured. Acting desperate is the opposite of confidence. I've seen ugly people with so much charm and confidence they people fall in love with them daily.
2006-08-25 03:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your are on the verge of being a stalker. She rejected you, but you don't accept it and think it is because she is shy; I doubt it. Let it go. Maybe check back in a year or two if you still feel the same, to see if she has changed.
2006-08-25 03:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by nuclear_science 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time...! I did rejected someone and i found out later on i was wrong...Hopefully she will find out that u really like her alot ..Not alot of guys are this honest ..But Wait for her and dont loose Hope ..She will come back !! XOXXOXO-ivette
2006-08-25 03:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she reject you?? is it because she's shy or just not interested?? send her flowers! that would win me over. maybe she has low self esteem. girls can have tons of reasons. maybe she's playing hard to get. who the heck knows!
2006-08-25 03:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! good question haa!!
i like that u realy want that girl otherwise nowadays people dont like to wait they believe in telling "next"!!
ask her to be ur formal friend first.
try to know abt wat she dislikes in u.
try to change urself but ya dont change that things which r positive in u.care for her.do formal talk with her and just make her feel free with u.
after sometime u'll feel that she want a good friend like u.and then after some day u can propose her again.
2006-08-25 03:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by khushi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-15 14:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with her as much as you can, get her some flowers or chocolate, and just be friends at first, then move your way up
2006-08-25 03:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Cody L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. Keep trying. show to her that you're sincere in building the relationship with her.
2006-08-25 03:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by babe_of_spanish_gladiator69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋