What do you do when you have disapponted your parent and sorry is not good enough at all. Like using her money

Question

My mum trusted me with her money, but i used some of it and when she wanted it i couldn't honestly tell her the truth. i hide from, her by switching off my cell phone. How do i repair the damage ? She is heart broken, disappointed and she wont speak to me

Answer 1

Well just "Saying" Sorry isn't going to do anything Sorry is just a word and in her mind she is probably thinking well if she could lie to me about this then she could be lying to me about being sorry- it is going to take time - but you have to SHOW her that you are sorry and that she can trust you again and give her the respect.

I am sure she will see that you really truly are interested in repairing the relationship and over times things might be better than they ever were good luck =

Answer 2

U have to go to her and tell her the truth and make sure u pay her back every cent and give her back a little extra too.

U will have to do some other nice thing like take her to dinner or buy her something really nice.

U have only one mother and one father and those are the ppls in life u must never disappoint. Try your best to make up to her.

Good luck and don't let it happen again.

Answer 3

You obviously broke her trust in you, that is not repaired over night! You have earn that back and it will require some work on your part. Of course you need to apologize and explain to her that you were irresponsible and inconsiderate of her and her feelings. You also need to explain to her that you know you have lost the faith she had in you and that you are willing to do what is necessary to repair it. Good luck and next time, remember honesty gets you a lot further and when someone trusts you it is not worth the heartache it causes to break that!

Answer 4

Be honest. Tell her precisely what happened and give her back as much of the money as you have available today. Then let her know you will find a job - or a second job if necessary - and pay back the rest within 2 months. Then make it your business to do exactly that.

And in the future, do not be a self-indulgent twit and you won't get yourself into situations such as this.

Answer 5

You're going to have to give your mom some time to trust you again. Trust is a hard thing to gain back after you've broken it. I would be very careful of your actions for the next few months.

Answer 6

It is never too late to apologise, seek forgiveness: frankly tell mom what happened. Repay the money the way you can. give mom a big hug, like in good old days. Make up, be friends again: the initiative is with you. You'll feel very very good, when mom forgives you, and, you forgive you yourself after that!

Answer 7

honey the only thing I can tell you is get the money and go to your mother apologize to her as many time as you have to because a mothers love is the biggest thing. I don't know if you have been to see her but if you haven't you need to.you need to give her time to trust you, but the only way to do so is by showing her that you are sorry keep trying to talk to her until she talk to you i hope thing work out for you

Answer 8

Once the trust is gone, you will have to work hard to get it back. Start by telling her the truth, then ask her what you can do to make up for it.

Answer 9

You have to tell her the truth. Eventually you'll be able to mend fences but the longer you keep the truth the harder it will be. Then set up a payment plan and pay her back.

Answer 10

Do whatever you feel is necessary to fix the situation. Maybe that means get a part-time job or something to pay her back. maybe it's doing extra chores around the house. Whatever the case, she your mom, and won't be disappointed with you forever. talk to her about it.