So my friend is 24 n a girl.she has been seeing this guy now for 2 months.things started out fast n intense but he has since cooled alot.he doesnt see her as much as he used to.he can go weeks now without hanging out with her.for example she was invited to the lake by friends n he didnt want to go so she ended up going by herself.when she calls him to hang out he chooses to sleep,watch tv,stay at home, etc.he still calls her like 4 times a day but the actually face-to-face contact is low.my friend got fed up n told him to come to her place and pick up all his stuff.he said ok n came n picked it up.when he was there he acted as if nothing was wrong, teasing her,tickling her, etc.its as if he doesnt realize or care that he had not hung out with her in two weeks.now shes confused n to be honest, so am i. what is going on here? is he that uncaring?
2006-08-25 02:54:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he was just using your friend for a brief interlude. Now that his inital "craze" is over, he is backing off, and just letting her sit at home while he does whatever he wants. My idea is that she did the right thing in telling him to pick up his stuff. Sounds like she just needs to leave it at that and move on. And yes, it sounds like he really is that uncaring.
2006-08-25 03:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by tiggerluv252000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MANZ!!!! He behave TOTALLY and SURPRISINGLY the same as the B@stard bf i had in the past!!!!!!
I tell you...ask your friend to stop dwelling into this relationship..This guy is a b@stard!! It took me 4 years to get rid of my ex you know..Even you broke up with him, he will come and tease you and joke with you like nothg has happen and there you will wonder if he still love you or wat..but i can tell you and your friends..he's just bored...he wants entertainment from your gf when he's bored..he likes he come tease your frd, hes tired or dun feel like it..he ignore your gf..but if your gf complaint to him, he will then say shes over-sensitive and he needs to breathe and there he will make your gf sound shes at fault again..
LEAVE HIM!!!!
2006-08-25 10:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad situation. Sounds like your friend has a crush & that the guy is taking advantage of it. The best thing you can do is be supportive-she is going to have to decide for herself to stand up for herself.
2006-08-25 10:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by laneydoll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He is just not into her" if he was he wouldn't hang her out to dry like that.
2006-08-25 10:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by shianne123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-25 09:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ghost 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋