SHOULD I BE JEALOUS OF HIS BABY MOMMA? AND SOMETIMES HE ASKS AS IF IM NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND AND INTRODUCES ME TO HIS FAMILY AS HIS LITTLE BROTHERS, GIRLFRIEND ROOMATE INSTEAD OF HIS GIRLFRIEND AND WHEN I GET MADE HE TRIES TO FIX IT? WHAT TO DO ? I DONT WANT TO LEAVE BUT I DONT WANT TO STAY.
2006-08-25 02:46:09 · 15 answers · asked by rnorfleetlopez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She was pregnant before we were together
2006-08-25 02:59:15 · update #1
You just told us all the signs that he is giving to you that he is a snake in the grass. You have nothing to worry about you are not married to him THANK GOD!!! So leave his using , no good butt and get yourself a real man. He doesn't want anyone to know that you are together because he has thoughts of 'doing the right thing' and getting back with her, so he is leaving the door open with his friends and family to do just that. And if you do make it through this patch and you get close to the baby......... I am here to tell you from experience.... it is one thing when a relationship goes sour and its just you and the guy....... you are only losing one person.......... but when you are with a guy and HIS child and you love them as your family and the child as if the child was your own blood and you help raise her or him, and the relationship is over, you lose two people and that is so damaging and hard and heartbreaking........ more then you think. I will never do that again. NEVER. I say you bail out now with all the signs you are getting. You shouldn't have put up with it this long. blessed be.
2006-08-25 03:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend ... I understand it from the ex's point of view ... been there done that. My ex never even told his current gf (which hes been w/ now for 14 yrs) of our daughter and shes 18!! However, if hes not acknowledging u as the current gf, hes not interested in starting a new relationship w/ u or any other girl for that fact. I suggest u give him an ultimatum ... admit to family and friends that u 2 r dating and that he loves u or tell him good bye if he cant do that. its not worth the headache of trying to compete w/ the ex! U deserve much better than him anyways!!
2006-08-25 02:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by fierylegs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L.E.A.V.E obviously he doesnt make the time to treat you like u should be treated u need to leave him cuz u deserve a relationship too a full relationship whereas ur acknowledged as a girlfriend and treated like one not jus someone whos jus around
2006-08-25 02:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by crazycaribbeanchicka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that this guy doesn't want to commit to anything---if he truly loves you-he wouldn't hide your relationship with him from anyone--and when you say you don't want to leave but you don't want to stay--sounds like you already made up your mind to leave but, you just might not want to deal with the hurt that comes along with it---just remember what ever decision you make you will have to deal with it---
2006-08-25 03:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been down that road.. Recently. The end results was me being hurt. I'm still not the same..
Good Luck.
2006-08-25 02:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by s_4perry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you for real he's being having sex with his ex while he was with you to make it worst he has you as just a fu*k thing no man who says he's your his gf will introduced has what ever he does he sees you as just afriend with benefit he doesn't respect you run and run fast
2006-08-25 02:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave. He must not think much of you to not introduce you to his family!
2006-08-25 02:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by mommato4boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to inform the reality even with the very undeniable actuality that it may sound incorrect your dishonest is a aspect of the previous the previous would not want to be presented into the destiny it would want to likely smash the relationship
2016-11-27 20:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out and do NOT look back. If he can't even acknowledge his true involvement with you, he doesn't respect you, nor does he deserve you. F him.
2006-08-25 02:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by ascolli_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa wait a minute he's your boyfriend , but had a baby with his ex recently ???? Give him the Boot !!
2006-08-25 02:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋