i look for a lady who has a big heart, has a great personality, and cares about others first. i have all these traits plus a sense of humor. i feel money and looks are not important in a relationship. although they help in life.
2006-08-25 02:33:39 · 18 answers · asked by unloved 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We look for a man who is a good listener and has a great personality. If you're fun loving (but not just all out crazy) and sweet, it's hard not to like you!
I know everyone probably gives this advice and it's kind of cheesy and cliche, but just be yourself. If you're pretending to be someone you're not to get someone to like you, you're cheating yourself (and the girl) out of an honest relationship. What if she doesn't seem like the type to like your real sense of humor? Then you'd just be betraying both you and her.
Just wait. You will find someone out there who is just right for you. Just to make myself clear on something; she may be right for you, but not just like you. I think you're looking for great qualities and seem to possess them yourself. I hope you find someone really special!
2006-08-25 03:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Cassiopeia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't ever say that i look for a particular thing because everyone has different things which are great about them.
One boyfriend had a great sense of humour another was very caring etc. Once I like a mans personality, then i find what i like in his looks. He has to impress me with who he is, how he talks to me and how he carries himself.
Once i like him i begin to look at him and see all the other lovely things about him.. eyes, hands etc. Looks become secondary are individual and part of their character. I don't go for good lookin guys but when i fall in love, i find him to be absolutely gorgeous because of who he is.
As far as money goes.. i would happily live in a tent with my lover should we have to. If we can eat, sleep and play comfortably I would go to the end of the earth with him. There were times when i was younger that I lived in some s hitty places and had to get food from charity (not always but we did once or twice) and looking back, it was some of the best days of my life. I was young in love and nothing else mattered. Unfortunately, lots of women care a lot about money and looks. My advice is move to Australia.. Aussie women don't care about that stuff. They like a fun honest dependable bloke
2006-08-25 09:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is an attraction...I love when a guy can make me laugh and be silly...I love if he can get along with my family (fam is very important to me) :-) I love a spontaneous guy...that's sweeps me away for a romantic weekend getaway...I also love doing things for someone...I will come home with little cute cards and teddy bears...and will split bills in half(or when he lets me) LOL...He doesn't have to be a millionaire..but I think BOTH parties should be comfortable so we enjoy life and do things...because being stressed about money can bring a relationship down to!
I hope you find your dream girl :-)
2006-08-25 09:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i look for in a man is honesty, someone i can trust. a big heart. , funny, someone who wants to live life and have fun but not be crazy. personaility a good sense of humor . and your right money and looks are not a must is whats inside and yes money makes it easer but you can still have a good life with not much
2006-08-25 09:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by pudding_pops2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i look for almost the same things...but we have to have things in common, he is sweet, nice, has a great personality, cares about others, and also has a sense of humor.
I have what u are looking for...but...hun i don't look on the net. I look in person.
2006-08-25 09:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a nice pare of eyes a great sense of humor and stability. not money but looks r somewhat important for the physical attraction good luck.
2006-08-25 09:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by cassey c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with simplicity, it's there or it isn't. There are things we like,want think we need but the bottom line is, when your attracted to someone, it's more about the chemistry, not the bank account, the car or the size of the package.
2006-08-25 10:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindness , Honesty and Humor
2006-08-25 09:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a young person in a guy I look for the personality this guy must be sweet kind and very open hearted
2006-08-25 09:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know about other gals but to me...appearance n physical r not important but feelings, luvs, caring, understanding........mostly..trusting n many more good qualities are very important to me.
2006-08-25 09:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋