This guy and I met about 6 weeks ago, we have gone on several dates, movies, golfing, bowling, group activities....I like him a lot. He is romantic and sweet and very attentive. He is taking it really slow meaning casual, we have only kissed, held hands and cuddled, which is completely fine with me. We are going to stay over in a hotel this coming weekend for a packer game, going to a wedding together and spending about 1 or 2 nights a week doing something together. He talks to me on the phone or through text almost everyday. I asked him to meet my parents, he was a little hesistant not sure if he will or not. Since I asked he has not called for a day. I dont know what to think...he is not trying to get with me, taking it slow. Guys, what do you think I should do? He is not seeing anyone else, just taking it at a different pace then most guys? How do I handle this situation?
2006-08-25 02:28:19 · 6 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call him and talk to him. every guy is worried about meeting parents.
2006-08-25 02:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time. Your request to have him meet your parents probably jolted his nerves. Most guys like status-quo until they see a need to kick-it up a notch. If he's sensitive (like you describe), he'll come around soon enough.
Getting parents involved too early in the dating process is a little like throwing gas on a fire. Can get complicated quickly.
2006-08-25 09:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm..give him some time..Altho it can be abit frustrating at times that he almost can see your folks,but still if he's not ready, don't force him..If he's ready he will be more than willing to see your folks..
Just be more careful for this guy...or any guys actually..some guys even they seen your folks, they can play with your feelings and gone to bed with you then dump you,so doesn't mean by showing your folks his face, he won't dare to do anythg to you..
Talk to him..ask him what relationship are you both into?are you both friends or companion or couples..and Never show that you are desperate for him..
2006-08-25 09:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think you want more of a commitment from him or at least more then he was initially going to commit to. That usually is signified by a meeting with the parents and he may be uncomfortable with it. Everyone is usually afraid of commitment.
2006-08-25 09:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you people talked it over before asking him to see your parents? if no, sit him down and discuss your future together for mutual benefit.
2006-08-25 09:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rector 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure baby ,, he just waste some time on you ...
UNFAIR.....
its unfair that ....
that i love you so madly ,
while you don`t know....
and to missed you so much,,,
while you didn`t feel that ...
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while you didn`t hear that ....
and to write all my poems to you ,,,
while you didn`t read them ....
and to be so jealous about you ,,,
while you didn`t realize that ....
and to wait you all the time,,,
while you didn`t come yet to me....
yes ,,,
unfair that what you do...
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2006-08-25 09:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋