I was at the movies with my boyfriend so I am watching the movie.I start feeling rubbing on my foot and ankle and I realized it was the guy next to me.He kept on rubbing and I started to enjoy it and let him do it.My boyfriend had no idea that this stranger was turning me on.After it happened I thought about this man for two weeks.Did I cheaT?Ladies what would you do if a stranger played footsie with you at the movies with your man right there?
2006-08-25 02:27:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes, forbidden things feel so good simply because they are FORBIDDEN. when they happen, like your footsie story, they can come across as funny because of the absurdity of it even happening--
the guy must have been a good one with footsies because before sensibility took over you, you started enjoying it. you let it happen because it made you excited (by nature, anything forbidden is exciting btw, because you're defying some unwritten rules). but did it ever occur to you that the guy could be doing this to other women when he watches movies? maybe it has become a challenge to him, too-- to play footsie with women who are obviously with their bf's for the mere excitement that it brings him. realizing this, would you still want to be excited with such a guy?
im not in the position to judge if you cheated or not. there are many ways of looking at cheating. but you can put yourself in your bf's shoes: a pretty girl sits next to him and starts playing footsie with him. he ALLOWS it like you did. would that anger you or make you laugh because she dared do it with you right beside your bf? he gets turned on-- would that be perfectly okay with you? if the thought angers you, would you accuse him of cheating?
2006-08-25 02:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Footsie In Movies
2016-12-13 06:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by glassing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way. You and your boyfriend are at the movies again, only this time the girl on the other side of him starts playing footsies with him. He is obviously turned on. Would that bother YOU?
2006-08-25 02:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by averyanne77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow is that dangerous or what. You could merely ask your boyfriend to change seats with you (you could say to see if his seat is more comfortable for you than the one you are in). Don't make a big deal of it. Or you could say you both could go for popcorn, or you have to go and you need him to stay outside the bathroom door for security....and then when you return go sit in another place. I figure if your man knew what the other guy was doing there would be a fight. Try to avoid fights.
2006-08-25 02:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isnt cheating but think of it like this......... would u like it if ur bf played footsie with another woman?
Never do any thing that u wouldnt want done to u.
2006-08-25 02:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no i wouldnt let a stranger play footsie with me..think about it..would u like it if ur boyfriend was playing footsie with another complete stanger??
2006-08-25 02:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u feel like u betrayed your bf then u vheat
i wouldnt have any fun with some stranger even tho it might have been nothing big
2006-08-25 02:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by veryberry 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
better u should have informed this to ur BF right away.. and wd have kicked that stranger...
2006-08-25 02:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ganesh s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a life if you have to ask a question like that.
2006-08-25 02:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The reason your BF didn't notice is because he was fingering the hot blonde next to him!
DOESN'T SOUND OR FEEL GOOD DOES IT SLUUT!!!
2006-08-25 02:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋