during one dance, i french kissed the stripper several times. during the other dance the stripper was sucking on my ears and jammed her tongue in my ear (ear job) i realize that strippers are paid to like you and turn you on but when they go "above and beyond the call of duty" in a situation like this, does that mean that they are turned on or sexually attracted by you?
2006-08-25 02:23:28 · 27 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go back , start talking to them see if u can "hook up" then u will know
2006-08-25 02:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that the strippers were going "above and beyond the call of duty."
They make their money in tips, and the more a guy thinks the girl likes him, the more tips he leaves her.
Not that I think you couldn't, but I highly doubt you were turning them on sexually. They are strippers, they are paid to make you believe they like you, and you probably paid them well.
2006-08-25 02:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAHAHAHA I love all the messages from all the haters here that say they just want money. If you want the hook-up (And yes, these girls probably were all about the money), then you have to play it cold. Don't give the Hos a dime. That includes every normal ho you see walking down the street as well. Every one knows nice guys finish last, every girl, whether she is bad on the surface, or just a coniving witch thinks this, and will crap all over a nice guy. Believe me, I spent my life being that guy until several years ago.
When you go into the club, and that same ho comes over asking for a lap dance, or a drink, or whatever, don't give in. Let her know you are only there to 'check things out' before you bounce someplace to meet your friends. Do this on an extremely busy night, fri or sat. Just say hey, give her a little hug. Don't spend a dime on her. If you don't even buy yourself a drink, even better!
Leave after a minute or two. Next time, go back on like a tuesday, when you know it's dead as hell in there. She will be bored to death, but don't go sit down next to her. Play it cool like you don't see her there. After a minute she will come to you. Play it cool and friendly, get yourself a drink, no lap dances, no dumb-*** I wanna be a bf kind of junk. Hang out for a while, offer to buy her a drink, and just talk. Again, nothing lame and sappy, just a normal conversation. Repeat this move a few times. Stop in on a super busy night, just to say hi and check things out. She will be too busy with the customers that are throwing down cash to really worry about you. But, it will be enough face time that she will wonder about you. Go in on slow days when she's bored as hell, and you are her entertainment relief. Gradually get more personal with her. After a few weeks, POW. One boring tuesday, joke around with her as usual, then joke about how she owes you that lap dance. Go into the back, pay your money, but be kinda tight with the tips, don't just throw her crazy money,. laugh and joke alot, so it stays lighthearted and you don't seem like a guy who's about to fire a gun in your pants. Keep playing this game and you will get in there. I have hooked up countless times in clubs this way. I've actually ended up hooking up with 6 different girls in one club.
By doing this scheme, you are low threat. You aren't the guy that comes in acting like a pimp. So ho's are dumb and thick you are genuine.
People can laugh all the want. But, as they say, the proof is in the pudding. And my pudding is all over these girls.
"Ain't nothing but a G thing"
2006-08-25 02:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by buckneckid6988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time their doing their job if they keep turning you on . you will keep going back to the bar and thats money for them so that could be a yes and a no
2006-08-25 02:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by pudding_pops2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It means that they want you to think that they are attracted to you. It also means that they were willing to go much further....if the price is right. This is a job for them.
2006-08-25 02:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by ii7-V7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a job is a job some do extra for the better tips so don't go thinking you were any different from the one before
2006-08-25 02:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by juls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean NOTHING to them except for your money. Once that 20 dollars that you walked in the door with is gone then so are they.
2006-08-25 02:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they just want u to pay for more dances is all
2006-08-25 02:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just looking at the size of your wallet
2006-08-25 02:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by muckrake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want your money dude! Don't feel bad, your not the first guy to fall for it.
2006-08-25 02:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by birdmansol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a chance they want more money. so they do stuff like that so that you buy more lap dances.
2006-08-25 02:29:20 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋