i don't know why of late i don't feel attracted to ladies my age but rather attracted to older women.what could be the reason
2006-08-25 02:19:59 · 37 answers · asked by shingiliraih 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! what is wrong is that you only just discovered that older ladies
are self-assured, powerful, tons of fun, and that they don't yell, don't swell, and are grateful as hell!
Plus, many of them either own a boat and a truck, or don't mind if you go out on someone elses!
Jes' really truely, mind your manners, so they don't git mistaken ideas that you dis-respect them. And, NEVER EVER talk about them to any of your friends as it will spread like wildfire and you will be cut OFF from ALL access to ALL ladies of ALL ages!
they got a telegraph that can really spread the news! Must be them meetins every week, they call church!
2006-08-25 02:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different, there are pros and cons to choosing someone older, and it depends on which career you choose if you will be ostrasized for that or not. If you plan for any relationship with a large difference in age to last your lifetime then you need to realize that at some point the woman will age really quick, and depending on if you can accept that or accept paying out lots of money to update her, then there might be a problem. She will have to put up with (more than you would, in personal life socializing with friends, as well as in business, in insurance situations, even in visiting doctor offices) wise cracks about you being her son.
Could be you wanted a lot of attention from your mother and she, for some reason, couldn't give you the attention. Or, could be you think older women are more mature or could teach you things. Or maybe you yearn for the material things she has, the position she holds in a job, or the contacts she's made in life, etc. Your guess is as good as mine.
2006-08-25 02:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much older? My wife is four years older than I am, and to me it doesn't mean a thing. It wouldn't if she were ten years my senior, or more.
Some shrinks will say you have an Oedipus complex, that you fancy your mum, and are substituting her with these older women. All I can say is that some women look just amazing in their forties and waaaay into their fifties and beyond. A more mature woman is likely to have resolved the inner peace conflicts of her life, to have calmed down a little, got a little wiser, and know what really counts for happiness, and is less likely to play mind-games than a younger lady.
2006-08-25 02:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not saying that there is anything wrong with it but i am going to tell you that i have been through it and it is honeslty not worth the hurt that u will get because they are going to tell you anything u want to hear because in jail they have nobody and when they come out yeah it'll be alright for a minute but most inmates never change and your gonna be the one to get hurt in the long run even though you do not believe it now so just make your choices wisely and please take what i've said into consideration i've been through it,, best of luck
2016-03-17 02:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're in the same boat cheif. There is nothing wrong with it/you, now-a-days as women get older the tend to stay better looking and take care of themselves. Have you ever heard a female talk about how younger guys seem immature?
2006-08-25 02:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by non-conformists-are-conformers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason could be your interest in what you want in a mate are changing as you get older. Older women are often times more mature, nurturing and level headed. Younger women can still be in party mode and might not be as stable as an older woman. Go for it! If thats what ou want, then get it.
2006-08-25 02:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Camille 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how about if she older than 5 to 6 years?
2014-09-14 14:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you find the girls your age aren't as mature as an older woman might be. it's natural to feel attracted to older woman. i'm attracted to older men. i'm 20 and my bf is 29. Age ain't nothin but a number.
2006-08-25 02:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Marty Johnson 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! Girls fall in love with older guys all the time - what's the difference?
2006-08-25 02:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by my2cents 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your getting smart, lol ( I am 42)
Truthfully, it problably is that you are attracted to their confidence, maturity and the fact that they are more secure in live.
Maybe, you have heard that they are better when it comes to sex because of their experience.
It isn't a bad thing, you are seeing more and more of this in Hollywood.
2006-08-25 02:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋