the guyz in my class. dont know if he likes me. He is a sweet n helpful fellow but has a gang of guys who wont let go of a good laugh. i'm scared of being ridiculed once i disclose my feelings. catch is dat i got some advances from him 2. but cud it b a plot 2 mock me or is it dat he feels the same 4 me. he doesnt talk 2 me but hangs around, has helped me a couple of times esp. wen my car gave trouble. came 2 my b'de party but last of all. ignores me yet talks 2 all my girlpals. 1 of his mates told me hez not the guy who wud ever fall 4 a gal but no 1 can b sure of what goes on inside his head...my term is about 2 end n then we will part away may b never 2 meet again. i dont have much time. dont want 2 regret later in life! please help.
2006-08-25 02:09:34 · 12 answers · asked by N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys pretend to ignore the ones they care the most... this is a guy thing don't ask me why!!
Also ... guys are bad at expressing their feeling.
so we have deadly combination to loose the one's u love best!
Your only way out is to imaginatively create time alone with this guy.
Don't sit facing him if he is uncomfortable.
Sit beside him and discuss any topic of common interest.
casually ask him if 'we' will meet again. watch for his reaction.
...Good Luck.
Remember:
If you love someone,
Set him free...
If he comes back to you,
he is yours for ever!
If he dosen't come back to you,
He was never yours to be!
2006-08-25 02:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Doubting Thomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still wasting time here! Come on da LOVE should be expressed, Don't make delay, Tell him what U feel, I wish U that you will get good reply and make my answer a best...
(its not worth of keeps thinking, May be he was in same situation like U, So don't expect he will come, Nothing will happen U go and say, Its your life matter da, Don't waste your time pal)
2006-08-25 02:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by nsk_sathish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 20th century if you can get him by the lockers or in the hall give a small shout and ask him to help you with some home work and make sure it is home work just to see if he is nice to you with out his pales and him having to show an cool image and then you can check him out
2006-08-25 02:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by charprid10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance, that's the only way to make sure. Hope it works out if only for a small time, just live in the moment and enjoy it for what it is, remain open to the possibilities.
2006-08-25 02:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by calvcanto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just propose to that guy casually why u have to worry for others
if he also feels the same then no prob but if he's against then u both might be a good friends. its ur life so dont hesitate to open ur heart to that guy quickly
2006-08-25 02:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by push 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him about your feelings. don't hold it back
if you really like this guy, just tell him honey, you got nothing to lose.
don't be paranoid about what will happend if you tell him,
you have two choise honey,
1 you tell him and except the consequens, but atleast you don't have anything to regret, specially when both of you will seperate
2 dont tell him, you just paranoid and keep your feeling to your self and then someday you will regreated for the rest of your life
honey just be brave okay.
if he sweet just like you say, so you don't have to worier about anything else
but if he doesn't look like you say, and he tell everyone about your feeling. well honey it's a sign for you, that he is not for you
find someelse that will respect for who you are
honey just be brave and tell him about your feelings
you never know what will happen and his feelings, if you don't say it
goodluck hon
2006-08-25 02:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by catlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,may be he has feelings for u...like he kind of ignores u coz he wants u to attract towards him..did u get what i mean...why dont u try to make more friends with him..which will help u to know more about him....and at the end of term just say that u have feelings for him..and if u have confidence in ur self then u will achive what ever u want....best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 02:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you DO NOT tell him you love him. You don't, if you haven't been with him a really long time. You just have a bad crush. So...you tell your friends you like him. Period. It's going to get back to him. If he likes you back, he'll start paying attention to you. If he doesn't, just ignore him and find someone else.
2006-08-25 02:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. thats the risk you take when you open your heart to someone. you need to decide if he is worth the humiliation you may receive from his friends if he doesn't love you back. then decide if you don't tell him, will you regret it?
it's a catch 22!
2006-08-25 02:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest NOT writing to him. He and his friends will certainly see your writing as a joke.
2006-08-25 02:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋