My ex husband had a ferret (which he was not taking care of anyway), he needed money for gas. He asked my brother if he wanted to buy the ferret off of him. My brother told him "Yes, but he would have to pay him installments", he is only 12. My bro gave my ex $20 and my ex gave him the ferret. Now the problem is my ex wants the money in full. My brother still owes him $60. He said if we cant come up with the money today that he is taking my car, somehow he aquirred the title. So what should I do or say to my ex to make him stop. I can not pay my ex I dont make enought to give my ex the $60 he wants for the ferret. My mother locked my borthers door so my ex couldnt get to the ferret. A little advice please
2006-08-25 02:07:16 · 9 answers · asked by LadyRaven 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He got the car out of my glove box, I just looked in ther because I was going to lock my doors. The car I purchased after I filed for seperation, its in my name.
2006-08-25 02:21:35 · update #1
I don't think it has anything to do with the ferret, your ex is just trying to get at you and he found that this was a way to do it. By no means is taking a car away worth the price of the ferret. Tell the ex that he made a deal with your brother about making payments and he's just gonna have to deal with it, and to leave your car alone!!!
2006-08-25 02:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any proof that he has the car's title? Has he shown it to you? I'd think that part is a little fishy- and a huge bluff. Once that's clear, tell him to get his sorry *** out of your life and mooch off someone else. He got his $20 for gas money, any other debts he has now are his and his alone.
To keep your brother honest, though, I'd still collect the remaining $60 from him (in the agreed-upon installments) and send it later to your ex in the mail or something- as little contact as possible.
And as a last note- ferrets are pretty hard to take care of, so I hope your brother is up to the challenge! I own 4 myself, so if you need help or advice, feel free to contact me. :)
Good luck!
2006-08-25 02:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Robin J. Sky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did he get your title?
If he stole it, I would pursue things from that angle. But there is no possible way that your little brother owing him $60 equates to him getting your car as collateral.
If all else fails, tell your brother to give the ferret back.
But the thing is, your Ex is using the ferret as an excuse to get back at you. If he has the title of your car, he's going to keep holding it over your head one way or another. Get other people involved, possibly seek advice of a lawyer, cause there's no way what he's doing would be legal.
2006-08-25 02:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dizazter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who got the car in the divorce decree. If it's you, don't take him too seriously. Get out your divorce decree and call the cops and tell them he is threatening to steal your car. His deal with your brother has nothing to do with you whether your brother is making his payments or not. Sounds like a loser, I'm glad you guys have split up.
2006-08-25 02:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by t79a 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 11:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Borrow 60 bucks from someone and give it too him and than stop talking to him.
2006-08-25 02:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police,the title is in your name .auto theft.and PRESS CHARGES.you did nothing he stole it..do it now becides your mother would have to sign an aggrement becouse your brothers ubder age..
2006-08-28 15:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to kiss your rosie red a.. tell him to get a job and get out of your life
2006-08-25 02:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be safe
2006-08-25 02:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋