I have an intimate fried I met him in colleges. He was my class met and since then we are friends and almost we are families. He comes in my home and i do the same.
After graduation we hired in the same company with the same position. Now he was clash with me by misbehaving me to my boss. I quarreled with him when i know his bad doing. Then we didn't talk and no more friends like before. One day he asked me to apologize him and lets be friends like before, i did that thing innocently and i am really regretted. You know i trust and i like him before. How could be like before? anyway
I accept his apology. So can he be a good fried and can i contact him again? Tell me ur advice?
2006-08-25 01:16:20 · 4 answers · asked by Joney B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok you have a long story, however friendship is not something that can be ignored so easily. Talk to him and explain the situation to him, you cannot break relationships just like that, every relationship has problems and people overcome them. So talk to him, this time oyu aplogise and hope he will understand you. I am sure both of you understand how important your relationship is and it cannot break just coz you had a problem between.
Best of luck.
2006-08-25 01:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by raj c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For couples to have a happy long term relationship, they must behave as matured adults.
The behaviours you described here between you in the same company are immature. Why do you have to fight to gain the boss's approval at the expense of the other? This appears very childish.
You must be able to discuss differences without being personal with each other. Each argument must be based on facts and not emotion. Once you get emotional, you will not be logical in your views. I think he has a long way to go if does not try to change his immature behaviour.
Good luck to you if you want to give him another chance. By the way, I don't think it is wise for intimate couples to be working in an environment that makes you compete against each other for recognition! Similarly, neither one should be in a more senior position in the same company and department.
2006-08-25 08:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, least I can say is that your friend didn't act like a good friend and I suppose you've been hurt by his stupid behavior. I think best thing is to talk about it together and let him know how you felt. Time will only tell if things can be like before between you and him because trust is something really hard to gain again once we have been disappointed by those we love.
2006-08-25 08:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by prunelle 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't even read this........how about spell check? Seriously
2006-08-25 08:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by bonbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋